Reply to: How do I find out?

[vetran]

Start talking to him, find a common interest arrange an outing based on that see if you get on and then ask him up for coffee.

If he's gay then it will a good night and he will politely decline or comment on your furnishings, if he's straight but boring you find out and he gets no beverage.

[Bagpuss]

You could do with a good subtle dainty creature!

I have one thanks

[SallyAnne]

Do women actually come out with "fancy a shag?" outside of Viz?

Subtle, dainty creatures I was led to believe.

You could do with a good subtle dainty creature!

[alreadypacked]

Last night I was asked for a shag by this chick I met a while back.
Must admit it's quite a turn-on and refreshing to have a girl take initiate instead of waiting around being "dainty".

Proved my point, you said no. Many guys think they would say yes, until they are asked.

[ChimpMaster]

Do women actually come out with "fancy a shag?" outside of Viz?

Subtle, dainty creatures I was led to believe.

Last night I was asked for a shag by this chick I met a while back. I just can't be arsed to drive down to Brighton tho!

Must admit it's quite a turn-on and refreshing to have a girl take initiate instead of waiting around being "dainty".

[Bagpuss]

Do women actually come out with "fancy a shag?" outside of Viz?

Subtle, dainty creatures I was led to believe.

[Old Greg]

Most straight blokes would jump at it.

That may be true.

[Mr Crosby]

No they wouldn't.

Most straight blokes would jump at it.

[Old Greg]

Any straight bloke would jump at it

No they wouldn't.

[Mr Crosby]

Maybe it's different up north.

But I think a question like that might frighten some of these southern guys.

You could do a poll

Any straight bloke would jump at it

[FiveTimes]

Maybe it's different up north.

But I think a question like that might frighten some of these southern guys.

You could do a poll

Maybe that's because they are all southern softies and still haven't come out

[alreadypacked]

Just ask him for a shag!!

Be honest with yourself - thats all you're after! You dont want another relationship do you?

So just ask him - what bloke is going to say no to that?!

Start a new "getting exactly what you want" chapter in your life mate

Maybe it's different up north.

But I think a question like that might frighten some of these southern guys.

You could do a poll

[SallyAnne]

Just ask him for a shag!!

Be honest with yourself - thats all you're after! You dont want another relationship do you?

So just ask him - what bloke is going to say no to that?!

Start a new "getting exactly what you want" chapter in your life mate

[alreadypacked]

No, I am a chicken....

You are leaving, you have nothing to lose. Have leaving drinks but only invite him

[Lucy]

So he's not gay, are you going to as him out?

Sounds like a fab trip, have a great time

No, I am a chicken. I have told the other cute guy that I think he (the previously thought gay guy) is cute, it might get back, and I am sending a goodbye email to everyone nice with my phone number and email....

Thanks, I hope so, it will be interesting...