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Cautionary tale for you all. Friends of ours (not me deffo enough sheep for me!)
were well into this.
They were open about it. It was werid the way they'd talk about it. They'd arrange meets with other couples via forums etc and do it as a double thing. The guy used to tell me how great it was banging loads of women.
BUT, as you can imagine, these forums or groups are populated mostly by men and the women on there aren't great. So while his mrs had plenty of options with regards to quality nobbing it started to dawn on him that it wasnt looking so good for him. Not so good because he'd talked his mrs into this in the first place and she now liked it a bit better than him. They had an agreement for only doing it as a couple but, as he cooled on it all, his mrs had got used to it all to say the least.
So turns out later, she started doing the single meets behind his back etc. Not so good. Lets just say it turned out she had a massive regular supply and not from him. Divorced because of it in the end.
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Originally posted by BrilloPad View PostIts the mutuality of obligation that worries me...
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Originally posted by quackhandle View PostI asked my accountant and he said this is fine as long as I declare myself outside IR35 first.
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Originally posted by Jog On View PostThe BBC are tackling 'ethically non-monogamous' relationships which seem to be becoming more accepted by the mainstream.
What do the esteemed panel think of this one? Anyone got any direct experience of this?
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Originally posted by ladymuck View PostMade me wince too.
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My experiences are that it can be one sided - in that 1 side thinks its a great idea but the other side doesn't but goes along with it as they do not want to loose them.
Also having kids generally kills this sort of thing.
But if you want to do it go for it - but why not just be single and have **** buddies?
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Originally posted by GhostofTarbera View PostWhen you have more than one women on the go you assume you get twice as much sex, in reality you just get twice as much nagging
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Originally posted by vwdan View PostSo long as it works for both people and everyone is consenting, what more is there to think?
As humans are involved there is a whole range of variations to poly - everything from "fun buddy" to full on communes.
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