Reply to: Open Relationships/Marriages

[vetran]

If it pays, shag it.

FTFY

[SimonMac]

[SimonMac]

It is usually the women who suggest it.

I think that's only the women married to you

[BrilloPad]

Not so good because he'd talked his mrs into this in the first place

It is usually the women who suggest it.

[psychocandy]

Cautionary tale for you all. Friends of ours (not me deffo enough sheep for me!)
were well into this.

They were open about it. It was werid the way they'd talk about it. They'd arrange meets with other couples via forums etc and do it as a double thing. The guy used to tell me how great it was banging loads of women.

BUT, as you can imagine, these forums or groups are populated mostly by men and the women on there aren't great. So while his mrs had plenty of options with regards to quality nobbing it started to dawn on him that it wasnt looking so good for him. Not so good because he'd talked his mrs into this in the first place and she now liked it a bit better than him. They had an agreement for only doing it as a couple but, as he cooled on it all, his mrs had got used to it all to say the least.

So turns out later, she started doing the single meets behind his back etc. Not so good. Lets just say it turned out she had a massive regular supply and not from him. Divorced because of it in the end.

[GhostofTarbera]

Its the mutuality of obligation that worries me...

Handcuff clause should work fine


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[BrilloPad]

Can't be much of a lover if you insist on a Right of Substitution!

Its the mutuality of obligation that worries me...

[LondonManc]

I asked my accountant and he said this is fine as long as I declare myself outside IR35 first.

qh

Can't be much of a lover if you insist on a Right of Substitution!

[quackhandle]

The BBC are tackling 'ethically non-monogamous' relationships which seem to be becoming more accepted by the mainstream.

What do the esteemed panel think of this one? Anyone got any direct experience of this?

I asked my accountant and he said this is fine as long as I declare myself outside IR35 first.

qh

[Platypus]

Made me wince too.

If you're interested,
Ludacris - Wikipedia

[original PM]

My experiences are that it can be one sided - in that 1 side thinks its a great idea but the other side doesn't but goes along with it as they do not want to loose them.

Also having kids generally kills this sort of thing.

But if you want to do it go for it - but why not just be single and have **** buddies?

[ladymuck]

You're damed right!!

Made me wince too.

[Platypus]

That needs an NSFW warning!

You're damed right!!

If you are in a monogamous relationship, the idea of sharing your partner with someone else might seem ludacris.

[BrilloPad]

When you have more than one women on the go you assume you get twice as much sex, in reality you just get twice as much nagging


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When MrsBP involved another lady(a few times) the sex was great. But getting them to stop talking and get down to action took ages.

[Halo Jones]

So long as it works for both people and everyone is consenting, what more is there to think?

I have a few polyamorous friends & it works for them, for 1 set it ended after 6yrs but then again so do other types of relationships.

As humans are involved there is a whole range of variations to poly - everything from "fun buddy" to full on communes.