Reply to: Oh how very "Refreshing!"

[psychocandy]

each to their own I suppose. I have no issue with him doing it.

When I got married I told the wife to be to keep her maiden name if she preferred. And she has done for work.
There's no way I'd change mine. Not because I'm precious about it, but because it's almost a removal of identity. I completely understand why anyone would refuse.

I really don't understand why this berk did it though. Unless of course, getting on the news was important to him. Maybe he'll appear on daytime TV next.

Aye it is a bit different. My Mrs has double-barrelled hers. Bit tulipe if you ask me but hey ho its up to her. It is just a name after all...

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KUATB

https://forums.contractoruk.com/gene...-hand-bag.html

[greenlake]

Why not follow the Iceland model?

Indeed. Share a Coke with....

[jamesbrown]

No, she's xxxxx xxxxxdottir - she takes her mother's forename as her surname.

She'd be perfect for a porno.

[woohoo]

Rather than all this messing about. The bloke can say I'm not getting married if you don't take my name. It's simple, if she is not up for that move on and find someone who respects you as a man.

I think it's time to start being men here, and stop bending backwards. Now, of course if your surname is cockwomble then fair enough take the misses surname.

[xoggoth]

Maybe most unsexist approach would be to call everybody xxxxx. Or maybe assign unique registrations just as we do with car number plates.

[Jog On]

They were talking about this on the radio and it was suggested that kids should have both parents' names with hyphen.

So what happens if someone with a hyphenated name marries another with a hyphenated name? If they are not careful who they marry, after a few generations, people could have names several hundred characters long.

I've seen triple barrelled before - frightfully posh.

[Seahorse17]

Er, don't quite follow. If an xxxxx Adamson marries an unrelated xxxxx Evedottir and they have a daughter, is she xxxxx Evedottirdottir?

No, she's xxxxx xxxxxdottir - she takes her mother's forename as her surname.

[xoggoth]

Er, don't quite follow. If an xxxxx Adamson marries an unrelated xxxxx Evedottir and they have a daughter, is she xxxxx Evedottirdottir?

[BrilloPad]

They were talking about this on the radio and it was suggested that kids should have both parents' names with hyphen.

So what happens if someone with a hyphenated name marries another with a hyphenated name? If they are not careful who they marry, after a few generations, people could have names several hundred characters long.

Why not follow the Iceland model?

Say Adam and Eve have a son. He is xxxxxx Adamson. If they have a daughter she is xxxxx Evedottir. Simples.....

[xoggoth]

They were talking about this on the radio and it was suggested that kids should have both parents' names with hyphen.

So what happens if someone with a hyphenated name marries another with a hyphenated name? If they are not careful who they marry, after a few generations, people could have names several hundred characters long.

[greenlake]

nah but he sounds like a wimpy can't wipe my own arse type of man.

Neither can sumo wrestlers...

The alternative looks a bit dangerous....

[northernladyuk]

Neither can sumo wrestlers...

Unless they borrow one of shauny's hygiene aids.

https://www.easierliving.com/freedom-wand.html

[BrilloPad]

nah but he sounds like a wimpy can't wipe my own arse type of man.

Neither can sumo wrestlers...

[Jog On]

Hehe I'm triggered again (in both threads). This is what an angry ex-nice guy looks like!