Originally posted by NibblyPig
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Of course when I started out I was. And I read stuff, came on here and said I've read X and Y and I am confused, then got torn apart.
I keep seeing others going through this and being torn apart as well, and I've seen them make a comment about NLUK calling him out for being horrible and in many situations deleting their accounts or never posting again.
Personally I think that is tulipty behaviour and very toxic to the community, so I called it out above. I'm sure in a 10 minute search I could find a bunch of similar posts about it.
Because of this bravado macho attitude (perpetuated by the whole forum, see threads about how everyone needs to be invoicing for thousands and driving porches etc.) the answer to so many questions is that you should know every single rule and piece of info otherwise you get called out as AYCOTBAC.
So it's quite simple to assume that if someone says hey I am taking the first steps to be a contractor, that they should either go crying back to permieland because they're not 'tough' enough, or they should go the opposite extreme and man up and go the whole way.
Not because it's the right thing to do, or the best decision, but that's what the macho bulltulip of this forum perpetuates in every facet. Most of the posts in general are always about this. While it's all good fun there, it does carry across. So I was presenting a view that says rather than just go big or go home, it is worth considering that getting into contracting is much easier if you can ease your way in.
My comments are torn apart and I'm branded as ignorant and weak or whatever because I don't submit to the whole oh yes you must go all in and make sure you have a huge BTL portfolio and AYCOTBAC without your 3 sports cars. I just see people that were like me, unable/unwilling to risk going contracting and flitting around for months burning through savings while finding their feet, and say don't submit to this macho philosophy, it's perfectly acceptable to take a few steps and ease yourself in as something to consider.
And I'll put up with the flak I get for that if it saves some newbie going through the torment I went through. I am really tired of seeing people join the forum, post a few times, get torn apart, then complain about how everyone (mostly NLUK) is being super mean to them when they're just trying to get started, then delete their account and leave forever.
But they're just NCOTBAC right?
I keep seeing others going through this and being torn apart as well, and I've seen them make a comment about NLUK calling him out for being horrible and in many situations deleting their accounts or never posting again.
Personally I think that is tulipty behaviour and very toxic to the community, so I called it out above. I'm sure in a 10 minute search I could find a bunch of similar posts about it.
Because of this bravado macho attitude (perpetuated by the whole forum, see threads about how everyone needs to be invoicing for thousands and driving porches etc.) the answer to so many questions is that you should know every single rule and piece of info otherwise you get called out as AYCOTBAC.
So it's quite simple to assume that if someone says hey I am taking the first steps to be a contractor, that they should either go crying back to permieland because they're not 'tough' enough, or they should go the opposite extreme and man up and go the whole way.
Not because it's the right thing to do, or the best decision, but that's what the macho bulltulip of this forum perpetuates in every facet. Most of the posts in general are always about this. While it's all good fun there, it does carry across. So I was presenting a view that says rather than just go big or go home, it is worth considering that getting into contracting is much easier if you can ease your way in.
My comments are torn apart and I'm branded as ignorant and weak or whatever because I don't submit to the whole oh yes you must go all in and make sure you have a huge BTL portfolio and AYCOTBAC without your 3 sports cars. I just see people that were like me, unable/unwilling to risk going contracting and flitting around for months burning through savings while finding their feet, and say don't submit to this macho philosophy, it's perfectly acceptable to take a few steps and ease yourself in as something to consider.
And I'll put up with the flak I get for that if it saves some newbie going through the torment I went through. I am really tired of seeing people join the forum, post a few times, get torn apart, then complain about how everyone (mostly NLUK) is being super mean to them when they're just trying to get started, then delete their account and leave forever.
But they're just NCOTBAC right?



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