Oi - who moved my post !

[SallyAnne]

Thanks Sal, thought you would shed some light.
All girls like attention but I don't think she is a total player e.g. being nice to blokes and they think she is interested and get over keen. If anything she has to be careful about saying anything because blokes always hear what they want to !
She emailed me after the night out to say I wasn't really her type so that is fair enough.
Boyfriend is fairly recent, just some wayne (generic, personality free, good looking b@stard) and she has been on a few dates with him.
He sounds as much fun as scabies from what she says so I am just trying to set up a contrast to him ! It is very rare that women take an instant liking to me but much more common that I grow on them over time (This p1sses me off but you work with what you have !)
At first, I was just doing this for a bit of distraction at work and to see if I could for a laugh. Trouble is, the more I get to know her the more I like her. I already knew she was fit but expected the normal 'pretty-girl syndrome' = self obsessed, never had to develop personality etc She has thrown me off by being smart and funny.
I still don't fancy my chances, I am going to leave it until next week, hope she is thinking about me a bit and then try to get her out for a night (I am down for a party near her in a couple of weeks but could go on the Friday or Sunday and meet her)
If not, well I will have to settle for a couple more lunches, she hasn't been leading me so unless she turns up the heat I will make sure I don't make a cock of myself !
One thing - I am going out with an old workmate one night next week, should I mention it to new girl, since we are mates I should be able to, might set the cogs turning ?

Yes absolutely mention it to her! It'll (hopefully) make her jealous, which wil make her realise she likes you "in that way". And it'll also be somethign to talk about AND stop you from possibly coming accross as creepy (men are always more sexy when they're attached - not cause all women are evil, but because it takes the "desperate" factor away!)

If this lass is as cool as you say (i.e. fit AND normal) then she'll not base everythign on just looks mate. If she's cool, smart, funny (like all the best chicks are) then she'll fancy blokes who make her laugh. The only lasses who base everythign on looks are the one who dont have a brain or who are so insecure they need someone to act as a reflection of them. She doesn't sound like this mate.

It sounds like you've picked a good'un, and as for you...well quite frankly I'm a bit p*ssd off she got to you first, cause you are just ace

[lukemg]

Bless ya !! I suspect we would be good drinking mates in real life ! Ok, I will steer clear of her till next week and get in touch around wednesday if she doesn't first. Drop the other date into conversation and not make a big deal of it.
Must admit I am enjoying the game enormously at the moment and I don't really have anything to lose so can relax - happy days !

[SallyAnne]

Bless ya !! I suspect we would be good drinking mates in real life ! Ok, I will steer clear of her till next week and get in touch around wednesday if she doesn't first. Drop the other date into conversation and not make a big deal of it.
Must admit I am enjoying the game enormously at the moment and I don't really have anything to lose so can relax - happy days !

Good luck, and keep us posted Duder...oops, false of habit!

[wobbegong]

Good luck, and keep us posted Duder...oops, false of habit!

. . . or "force of habit", as we say in England.

[realityhack]

. . . or "force of habit", as we say in England.

Perhaps the firts valid use of fleetyteach

[SallyAnne]

. . . or "force of habit", as we say in England.

I knew it didn't sound right!

Thank you

[Maxamus]

Man if shes got a boyfriend that is even better!

I love girls who are married or have boyfriends because those type of girls only want a bit of sex on the side in some posh hotel room!

I dont look for a great set of tits or great personallity in a women, i look for a ring. Yes a ring on her wedding finger!

Women in they mid 30's seem to be the ones who want it the most as the energy at home has dried down and poor henry can only get it up once a month so they look elsewhere.

Screw her !
You know she wants it. If she didnt then she wouldnt text/email or wtf ever else.
Nail her good and proper against the side of a wall!

[Maxamus]

From personal experience, I can confirm that this appears to be true of mid 30s "married" ladies... you may find that those little blue pills come in handy too... demanding seems to go with the territory...

Aye those blue pills can help henry but i find women in their mid 30's tend to dislike the artificial encounter and instead opt for a younger tall dark and hansom bloke instead

[wendigo100]

Aye those blue pills can help henry...

Who's henry?

[Maxamus]

Who's henry?

a random bloke in his 30's who is married