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    Ass Clowns

    People who just seem to thrive on conflict. Every contract has them

    Today I was even temped to use the "well I think we should talk about this offline" but I realised that was just passive aggressive translation of "shut up or I'll hulk smash you through the flip chart".

    Sigh. Smile and invoice. Smile and invoice.

    #2
    Is he short?
    While you're waiting, read the free novel we sent you. It's a Spanish story about a guy named 'Manual.'

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      #3
      I dont see so many who thrive on conflict, but I do see those who look for it and some who are not afraid of it.
      the trick, as usual, is to be ahead of the game. to nip it in the bud.

      also, one lesson I have learned, is that a bit of conflict is not always bad.

      esp if you are the boss. a little bit of niggle in the workers can bring out the best in them. just make sure it doesnt go too far.


      people who thrive on conflict are more tricky. as usual, in human affairs, if it can be harnessed, it can be incredibly powerful.
      if it can be harnessed.


      (\__/)
      (>'.'<)
      ("")("") Born to Drink. Forced to Work

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        #4
        Not short. Just the sort of person who wouldn't let stuff go.

        Defect identified, change made to the system. Emergency CR as stopping testing.

        Starts to complain that the change board haven't approved it, why is it a defect we could have found a work around. Etc. Explained not my call I just find stuff that doesn't work but he managed to bring it up in 3 separate meetings.

        Just wish he'd moan at the appropriate people!

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          #5
          Originally posted by Sockpuppet View Post
          Not short. Just the sort of person who wouldn't let stuff go.

          Defect identified, change made to the system. Emergency CR as stopping testing.

          Starts to complain that the change board haven't approved it, why is it a defect we could have found a work around. Etc. Explained not my call I just find stuff that doesn't work but he managed to bring it up in 3 separate meetings.

          Just wish he'd moan at the appropriate people!
          sounds more like a moaner than a conflictor
          (\__/)
          (>'.'<)
          ("")("") Born to Drink. Forced to Work

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            #6
            Originally posted by Sockpuppet View Post
            People who just seem to thrive on conflict. Every forum has them
            FTFY

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              #7
              The use of conflict in the workplace is a legitimate skill that can be utilized. The ability to challenge others and not be afraid of a little conflict along the way sorts out the men from the boys IMHO. But an aggressive stance in the way you have mentioned should be coupled with a lack of blame culture outside of the room. You need to tackle **** ups, tackle those who **** up, deal with it and then move on as a team. Hopefully this means you don't have to need it as much.

              On the flip side if you've got someone who gets ranty all the time I normally go toe to toe and tell them to fook right off or risk my wrath.
              What happens in General, stays in General.
              You know what they say about assumptions!

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                #8
                Best to nip it in the bud before someone goes postal.

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                  #9
                  It's good to have an eclectic mix of personalities on any project in my opinion.

                  Also keeps you on your toes re man management skills, as each one will react differently to the same treatment.

                  I actually like people to provoke discussion through disagreements, as it is often the best way to solve problems, and make sure nothing stays under the covers and festers.

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                    #10
                    Ex-Lax Senna laxative in his coffee.

                    Repeat daily until he's hospitalised or humiliated, whatever comes first.
                    If you think my attitude stinks, you should smell my fingers.

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