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WTF. He is now She!!!

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    #31
    Originally posted by d000hg View Post

    Still bizarre but personally I think ignoring it is more fake than simply asking "why?" when you bump into each other at the canteen.
    good bit of wisdom there.

    How many times in your life have you met someone who has had gender surgery, but has not changed their outward appearance ?
    you would never know.
    So to home in on the one who has changed the appearance, is to be very superficial,
    you are talking about the appearance, not whats going on beneath
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      #32
      Wilmslow would.

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        #33
        Originally posted by AtW View Post
        Wilmslow would.
        That's why he has a restraining order.

        Anyway. What's wrong if the fella wants a gender reassignment? The toilets are probably cleaner.
        What happens in General, stays in General.
        You know what they say about assumptions!

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          #34
          Originally posted by MayContainNuts View Post
          There was a meeting with HR and we not have to call Robert, Rachel?!?
          I wouldnt acknowledge IT with a name. It doesnt deserve one, It is an IT, not a he, not a she, just IT. Transexuals deserve no respect.

          However in this PC fascist state, you have to be "tolerant", but that just means you cant hog tie IT up. Being tolerant, isnt the same as acceptance or even liking something. You can tactfully inform HR of this. All of this depends on how much balls you have.

          The sickest thing, is the OH used to work with special needs kids in a school and a supply assistant came in, another IT/he/she. Confused the kids no end, with IT walking in to the "girls room" and the school transformed in to a circus as the kids couldnt focus on learning as they were trying to wrap their heads around why a bloke was wearing a dress. Really sick.





          Originally posted by MayContainNuts View Post
          Too weird for words!!!!
          Nowt as queer as folk eh ?





          Originally posted by MayContainNuts View Post
          How do you handle this!!!!
          Kneel down in front of IT/she/he, wiggle your little finger back and forth and say "ding-a-ling-a-ling".

          Seriously, if it were me? I would refuse to work with or acknowledge this person.

          I have no objections to if someone is a swinger, wears a gimp mask at the weekends, lunch nudger, etc etc. But that kind of thing is your personal life. That is the problem with these stupid communities. Do I ever walk in to work shrieking "ooooo im straight, guess who I screwed last night?", no. So there is no excuse for others.

          When it is quite clear you are a man and will never be a woman, despite any hormonal work or surgery, why inflict your lifestyle on others? If I leave work for a while and become a pornstar, then come back to work and demands that everyone calls me "donkey wang" instead of my name, should they? No.

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            #35
            Originally posted by MayContainNuts View Post
            Maybe. I just thought it was odd! Obviously no-one else does!
            I've got a couple of friends who've made the change, although I've only known them since they became women - there used to be a lot of prejudice, and people had to start their lives again from scratch. It's good to know that's no longer the case.

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              #36
              Originally posted by MarillionFan View Post
              That's why he has a restraining order.

              Anyway. What's wrong if the fella wants a gender reassignment? The toilets are probably cleaner.
              They arent, that's a massive myth that isnt true ....

              Mens toilets are far cleaner as men on the whole, are cleaner and tidier, contrary to popular belief.

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                #37
                Originally posted by NickFitz View Post
                It's good to know that's no longer the case.
                And that's a sad reflection on societies morals.

                People dying of diseases need operations and NHS funding. Those confused about their own gender identity need psychiatric help, not a scalpel ...

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                  #38
                  Originally posted by wim121 View Post
                  And that's a sad reflection on societies morals.

                  People dying of diseases need operations and NHS funding. Those confused about their own gender identity need psychiatric help, not a scalpel ...
                  That shows just how well informed you are, I think you might find if you actually do some research, rather than spout the sh!t you just have in your last few posts, that it isn't simply a case of one day a man decides "**** this I want to be called jane from now on", walks into an NHS clinic and gets the snip. I think you might find that surgery is usually the last option and is only considered after several psycological evaluations to ensure the person is of sound mind and isn't simply crying for help relating to some other issue.

                  I can confirm this is the case as a friend of mine went through exactly this procedure, I'd be very interested on what you base your "facts" on other than ignorant predjudice.
                  The proud owner of 125 Xeno Geek Points

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                    #39
                    Originally posted by wim121 View Post
                    I wouldnt acknowledge IT with a name. It doesnt deserve one, It is an IT, not a he, not a she, just IT. Transexuals deserve no respect.

                    However in this PC fascist state, you have to be "tolerant", but that just means you cant hog tie IT up. Being tolerant, isnt the same as acceptance or even liking something. You can tactfully inform HR of this. All of this depends on how much balls you have.

                    The sickest thing, is the OH used to work with special needs kids in a school and a supply assistant came in, another IT/he/she. Confused the kids no end, with IT walking in to the "girls room" and the school transformed in to a circus as the kids couldnt focus on learning as they were trying to wrap their heads around why a bloke was wearing a dress. Really sick.






                    Nowt as queer as folk eh ?






                    Kneel down in front of IT/she/he, wiggle your little finger back and forth and say "ding-a-ling-a-ling".

                    Seriously, if it were me? I would refuse to work with or acknowledge this person.

                    I have no objections to if someone is a swinger, wears a gimp mask at the weekends, lunch nudger, etc etc. But that kind of thing is your personal life. That is the problem with these stupid communities. Do I ever walk in to work shrieking "ooooo im straight, guess who I screwed last night?", no. So there is no excuse for others.

                    When it is quite clear you are a man and will never be a woman, despite any hormonal work or surgery, why inflict your lifestyle on others? If I leave work for a while and become a pornstar, then come back to work and demands that everyone calls me "donkey wang" instead of my name, should they? No.
                    You really are an unpleasant ****, aren't you?

                    I was in the same situation a few years ago. A male finance colleague came back from leave as a woman. There was some scratching of heads, but everyone carried on treating her with the same polite disdain that finance people deserve.

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                      #40
                      Originally posted by wim121 View Post
                      And that's a sad reflection on societies morals.

                      People dying of diseases need operations and NHS funding. Those confused about their own gender identity need psychiatric help, not a scalpel ...

                      +1

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