Girlfriend says its either her or the cat! (while crying in the middle of a walk)

[TimberWolf]

Is it really worth it? If you must be a slave to your instincts, at least choose someone you can be friends with too.

[Paddy]

Cats will decrease your blood pressure (fact) and they are cheap to run. You are its boss.
GF, will increase you blood pressure, cost you loads of money. She will be boss.

Keep the cat.

[kandr]

Have you ever thought about hiring prostitutes? You can keep the cat and gym classes and still get your rocks off.. for a small fee.

[Paddy]

Probably smaller than marrying her & getting a divorce though.

You could think of it as a sort of time share arrangement.

Divorce = £15,000 per year of marrage. Plus cost of keeping her happy £30,000 pa

Prostitute twice a week = £4,000 pa

[TimberWolf]

So it's better to rent than buy? You can also get the latest model and not be left with ancient technology cluttering up the house.

[kandr]

So it's better to rent than buy? You can also get the latest model and not be left with ancient technology cluttering up the house.

Yep, if you find on you like you can pay her (or her pimp) a retainer.

[norrahe]

Cats will decrease your blood pressure (fact) and they are cheap to run. You are its Minion.


Keep the cat.

[SupremeSpod]

You are right - maybe I like a little drama in my life.

She wants a cosy coupledom weekend, but just invited my mates around to join us for Saturday night.

Let a fun weekend commence

She wants to show you up in front of your mates. She wants them to see how you're now a couple.

FFS, bury her under the patio with the others.

[fullyautomatix]

Does this sound bunny boiler?

We spent last Saturday and Wednesday evening together, and yesterday.

She wants to spend a LOT more time with me - we agreed to go Ceroc dancing in Hyde on Wednesday as halfway for both of us. She wants to drive the extra 20 miles past the venue to my house, so see me at home for around 20 mins before we drive all the way back to Hyde for Ceroc lesson. Instead of us both going home after she wants to stay over which is kind of okay, but, why not meet at Ceroc then follow me home? Yes, she is seriously fine to hang outside my house for maybe an hour to maximise every moment.

She also wants to come over at mine from Friday night through to Monday morning. I have a gym class I like on Friday evening and Sunday morning which is good for my bad back - an hour away max. Gf really not happy about this having a right go at me.

In the middle of woodland walk today she cries and says 'It is either me of the cat' as I cannnot spend more than 1 night away without cattery. We can meet up halfway within 30 mins drive but she is insistant we spend more time staying over at each others equally.

Also, I was at mum't for evening meal last night - wanted to walk over as 15 mins. Gf was fuming I did not drive to get another 10 mins with her.

Truly - is this bunny boiler stuff or I am unreasonable for wanting to go to 2 back friendly gym classes over 4 days?

She said with the Friday night bedroom excercise I should not be looking at any gym!

Hi Wilm

All the above sounds like pretty 'normal' behaviour you would expect from a GF. If anything, you have had it good to be honest.

Is marriage on the cards ?

[SupremeSpod]

Divorce = £15,000 per year of marrage. Plus cost of keeping her happy £30,000 pa

Prostitute twice a week = £4,000 pa

STD Clinic = Priceless

Ftfy.