Getting the builders in ...

[sasguru]

sas,
don't you ever wonder just where you might have ended up if "Mama and Papa" had not made all the big decisions for you in your early years?

And what decisons would those be?

[shaunbhoy]

And what decisons would those be?

Not surprised you don't recall. YOU never made them.

[sasguru]

Not surprised you don't recall. YOU never made them.

Well your parents obviously weren't bothered if they raised a complete cretin.

[shaunbhoy]

Well your parents obviously weren't bothered if they raised a complete cretin.

I suspect that, had they done so, they in fact WOULD be bothered. But as that misfortune never befell them, it is hardly worth considering.
How did YOUR parents cope with it is a more pertinent question?