women troubles

[eternalnomad]

ive met a young lady at work, she works in the admin team and i really fancy her.

ive managed to find out that she is single, unbeleivabley, and i really want to make a move for her...

unfortunalty i feel that the office politics and placement really puts a downer on this, i dont think it would be suitable to just go ovet to her desk with all of her work collegues around and ask her out for a drink.

however, i have thought about emailing her. my only reservation is that this has not been successfull for me in the past when fancying someone in the office.

it would not be so bad if i was working with her on something, but we do not have much exposure to each other through work, other than a hello in the morning etc...

what do ya think i should do?

Do you get a good "vibe" that she may feel the same way - what does her body language tell you ?

[threaded]

I remember hearing of one contractor whose CV only lists the number and position of the women at the client sites he had bedded.

Makes a damn funny read.

[sasguru]

I remember hearing of one contractor whose CV only lists the number and position of the women at the client sites he had bedded.

Makes a damn funny read.

That person described above was me.

Threaded.

[Lucifer Box]

of course i chat to her, but she is always up and about, its hard to get to know someone more intimatly in the office. as a contractor you kinda of stuck in the corner and everyone sits around wondering what you do and why you sit alone outide of any team. whenever you get up to speak to someone they think your gonna land some work on them or ask them for help.

el duder

That is the most pathetic load of w@nk I've ever read. Is AtW your role model? Do you live with your mum still? Either get off your fecking arse and start talking to her rather than dreaming up all the reasons why it's "difficult" or stop off at the newsagent on the way home and get a copy of Razzle Readers' Wives Special and forget all about her.

Next time she goes to the coffee machine, go with her and start talking. You'll probably find she wants nothing to do with such a social inadequate anyway, but there's only one thing you can say for certainty in this game: if you don't ask, you definitely don't get.

Go for it.

P.S.
Take no notice of Alf, having a fling with a colleague is great. Err, allegedly.

[ChimpMaster]

Well, Valentines Dayis approaching, use some imagination!

[stackpole]

Ask her to lunch. Works for me, although I'd agree mixing business with shagging is best avoided.

[Alf W]

Ask her to lunch. Works for me, although I'd agree mixing business with shagging is best avoided.

I'd agree with that. I ended up getting married and with a kid going down that route!

[supremepods]

I've dreamt that I've met a young lady at work, she works in the admin team that I've made up - as I don't really have a job at all and i really fancy her.....She's got big tits and everything

ive managed to find out that she is single....of course !, unbeleivabley, and i really want to make a move for her... at least I think that's what it's called but I really want to shag her

unfortunalty i feel that the office politics and placement really puts a downer on this, i dont think it would be suitable to just go ovet to her desk with all of her work collegues around and ask her out for a drink......because she doesn't exist

however, i have thought about emailing her. my only reservation is that this has not been successfull for me in the past - as I don't get replies from any of my other imaginary friends when fancying someone in the office.

it would not be so bad if i was working with her on something, but we do not have much exposure to each other through work, other than a hello in the morning etc... yeah yeah !

what do ya think i should do?

GET A F**KING LIFE !

[Clownio]

however, i have thought about emailing her. my only reservation is that this has not been successfull for me in the past - as I don't get replies from any of my other imaginary friends - either

No neither do I !

[el duder]

the response

had a chat with her this morning as she walked by, i asked her if she had been and looked around the new campus etc..she said no..

i also know she is single.

so i followed up and emailed her.
have you got anything planned for lunch?

do you want to go and grab a bite to eat?

I'm not going to have chance to get out today, got loads to catch up on...sorry, another time.


have i just been blown out?