Did you have a nice long weekend?

[TykeMerc]

f**kwit. rarely does the man get a say in anything - it is the woman who calls the shots.

Not true at least in my case, fortunately not all divorces are laced with horrific legal battles and child access arguments.
I'm not saying F4J don't have a point because from what I've seen of other peoples breakups the Family Courts and CSA are thoroughly warped, but in my case neither were necessary or involved.
My ex is as keen for me to maintain contact with my children as I am.

[BrilloPad]

Not true at least in my case, fortunately not all divorces are laced with horrific legal battles and child access arguments.
I'm not saying F4J don't have a point because from what I've seen of other peoples breakups the Family Courts and CSA are thoroughly warped, but in my case neither were necessary or involved.
My ex is as keen for me to maintain contact with my children as I am.

Then I am very pleased for you. Government quotes that only 10% of divorces require intervention (180,000 divorces per year and 18,000 unique litigants per year) but each litigant needs average of around 3 appearances! Plus that 180,000 includes those with no kids. But more importantly some can't afford to go to court.

But the more who behave sensibly the better! Sounds like you made originally a very good choice of partner.