Plan your exit strategy, even if you love her to bits now and she's the perfect woman (aren't they all when you marry them?). e.g. Get the undated but signed share transfer certificate, stash some cash privately, do not send your kids to an expensive school. Remember that we will all say "we told you so" and your mother was right when she said your wife wasn't good enough for you.
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Originally posted by Platypus View Postdo not send your kids to an expensive schoolComment
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Originally posted by HRH View PostI notice that on here there seems to be a FFJ presence, can somebody tell me who the posters are that support this organisation? I have some questions for them.
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I have a few meetings today so please give me time to respond.Comment
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Originally posted by MickeyP View PostHardly their fault if you shaft your marriage?Comment
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Originally posted by Platypus View PostPrecisely, but who do you think pays for 100% of the education, 100% of child support while also paying maint for the ex and renting yourself a house? So long as you can afford all that until the youngest leaves full time education, you're a better man than me. And richer. Or maybe your wife won't expect to sit on her bum for ever more doing SFA and complaining how poor she is while you pay for everything. But don't bet on that.
Originally posted by Platypus View Post100% of child support while also paying maint for the ex.Comment
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My ex-wife was honest - she told me straight that she wanted enough money off me for her not to work.
Didn't mention that in Judges chambers though. Must have slipped her mind...Older and ...well, just older!!Comment
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Originally posted by MickeyP View PostYou're obliged to look after your kids but not pay for the ex's gin nights/shopping obsession right?
Older and ...well, just older!!Comment
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Originally posted by BrilloPad View PostI am now retired from f4j - I may or may not answer questions. I prefer them on open forum so others can benefit - but will answer PMs as I have done for several (I hope my replies were useful).
I have a few meetings today so please give me time to respond.
1) Is it not true in 90% of cases that a child is better off with its mother?
2) What % of members of FFJ would you say are doing this out of spite/Jealousy?
3) What are your objectives?Comment
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