I personally believe that everyone has a "true love" somewhere in the world, and as soon as I met b) I knew it was her. I've been in love with her for 6 years, have thought about her every day in that time. I've tried to show my feelings by actions rather than words - money, presents, support when she needed it, etc.
Wifey doesn't know anything about this. I don't know that I ever really loved her - she was the first (and only) woman I had a sexual relationship with, and so I felt a strong bond to her in many ways. Now we have kids I guess the bond is even stronger. We don't hate each other, though I've done some things in my time which she probably hated me for, for a short time at least.
I know what will happen. Nothing. I'll carry on as I am, keeping it all quiet, smiling and going on with life as it is now. I desparately want to move somewhere closer to the sea, as I was brought up in the west country. That would solve the issue with b). But it's not likely to happen, wifey is against moving the kids from the schools they're in. And it does cost a lot to move these days.
Anyway, it's been good to get that off my chest. I can talk to you guys - none of you know me, so you take me for what I say. Perhaps we can draw a line under it there. Time to move on.
As someone once said...NEXT!
Wifey doesn't know anything about this. I don't know that I ever really loved her - she was the first (and only) woman I had a sexual relationship with, and so I felt a strong bond to her in many ways. Now we have kids I guess the bond is even stronger. We don't hate each other, though I've done some things in my time which she probably hated me for, for a short time at least.
I know what will happen. Nothing. I'll carry on as I am, keeping it all quiet, smiling and going on with life as it is now. I desparately want to move somewhere closer to the sea, as I was brought up in the west country. That would solve the issue with b). But it's not likely to happen, wifey is against moving the kids from the schools they're in. And it does cost a lot to move these days.
Anyway, it's been good to get that off my chest. I can talk to you guys - none of you know me, so you take me for what I say. Perhaps we can draw a line under it there. Time to move on.
As someone once said...NEXT!
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