Chewed up and Spat Out..

[cailin dana]

I'm sure the thought of having to do dating again is alien to a lot of contractors here. I can't imagine it.

Yeah it's tulip starting again.... I can't be bothered playing games and it seems like thats all that happens now... it's doing my head in!

[el duder]

Yeah it's tulip starting again.... I can't be bothered playing games and it seems like thats all that happens now... it's doing my head in!

You hit the nail on the head! Thats what its all about, playing games, playing hard to get or elusive or whatever.

Im just over all that, when i meet a girl im just like right then are you up for it. They either (should) say YES or NO.

But insteead they play you like a game of chess and wreck your head.

Instead of a lets see or a maybe? Why not just say nah thanks not interested, your not my type. I could take that much easier.

[cailin dana]

Exactly, it'd be so good to just be honest, but you end up thinking that either they'll think you are a freak or something... or they'll just mess with your head anyway...... just 'cos they can.

[andy]

[QUOTE=el duder]Im just over all that, when i meet a girl im just like right then are you up for it. They either (should) say YES or NO.

QUOTE]

You don't get the point.They are not rational and logical thinkers to say yes/no. They are driven by emotions and feelings and if they don't feel hot and wet for you, tough luck.

[cailin dana]

Are you joking??? It's fella's who are asses..... If you are honest they think you want to marry them - we can't win.......

[el duder]

[QUOTE=andy]

Im just over all that, when i meet a girl im just like right then are you up for it. They either (should) say YES or NO.

QUOTE]

You don't get the point.They are not rational and logical thinkers to say yes/no. They are driven by emotions and feelings and if they don't feel hot and wet for you, tough luck.

Yeah well if there not wet then they should say. No thanks.

I have done it. I went out with a girl, nice girl, i didnt fancy her, so i said to her, listen its nothing personal but i dont see it going anywhere.

[Churchill]

[QUOTE=el duder]

Yeah well if there not wet then they should say. No thanks.

I have done it. I went out with a girl, nice girl, i didnt fancy her, so i said to her, listen its nothing personal but i dont see it going anywhere.

Neither did she, but her dog was happy.

[Fishface]

Duder - don't go for the really fit ones they are a pain.

Best girls are easy on the eye and WILLING and fun.

And as I have heard in the darker parts of Yorkshire -

"you don't look at the mantelpiece when you are poking the fire"

[wendigo100]

And as I have heard in the darker parts of Yorkshire -

"you don't look at the mantelpiece when you are poking the fire"

And it shows in some places up there!

[DimPrawn]

You hit the nail on the head! Thats what its all about, playing games, playing hard to get or elusive or whatever.

Im just over all that, when i meet a girl im just like right then are you up for it. They either (should) say YES or NO.

But insteead they play you like a game of chess and wreck your head.

Instead of a lets see or a maybe? Why not just say nah thanks not interested, your not my type. I could take that much easier.

Yes, all relationships should be binary. Maybe you can get them to show their affections with a logic diagram or flow chart?