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    Originally posted by Gibbon View Post
    Point proven.
    There was a point? lmao

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      Originally posted by gts View Post
      It all ended years ago. The Child Maintenance part is a recent development though.

      Since this thread has caused the expected controversy and I haven't really said what I think about it (and I know it will get equally vitriolic responses to the ones earlier though hopefully we can start to wind this down):

      1. Women in the current political climate are given pretty much every conceivable tool by the state to beat the crap out of men with, financially, legally or otherwise. So I have scant pity for either the state or the woman involved.

      2. The Child Maintenance Service are absolutely prepared to use dirty tricks and I have already experienced this which put me on guard early on, and I think others have also noted this much in the thread. Somehow though, it's bad to use dirty tricks in kind to protect my own ass.

      3. I really hoped that in 2018 more so-called "men" were aware of how deep the rabbit-hole goes in terms of women being enabled by the state to either destroy their family or to use it to persecute (yes, I'd class it as persecution given how frequently it is happening) a man who has spurned them. I'm not saying I expected sympathy, I just hoped more of us realised that *maybe* there's something wrong with the so-called family "justice" system right now. I know it's possible that many who are aware have just kept silent, and to be honest you can hardly blame them considering the reaction I got. It seems the white knight/simps/cuck (the 2018 version of cuck) biology is too strong to overcome in most guys.

      4. As for the children, many have speculated that I just don't care, all I will say is read between the lines.

      5. Ultimately I know from personal experience and from the experience of many, many other men in the same position that the money clawed from me through the CMS is really not going to be spent on my children, but rather on Loubotins (or whatever they're called), handbags, meals at expensive restaurants and holidays. Tell me, fellow men, doesn't it make a ton more ******.g sense to hold onto as much as I can and spend it on my children directly?
      1. So why did you have children knowing that?

      2. There are plenty of men who try to avoid their responsibilities. The CMS tries to counter that.

      3. The family justice system changed big time in 1969. Minor changes in 1987. BrilloPad was in his Batman outfit in 2003. So knowing all that, why have children?

      4. You have an odd way of caring.

      5. Given the number of men on CUK who are divorced, doesn't it worry you that not one has come out in your support?

      You should ask yourself, what would BrilloPad do?

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        Originally posted by GreenMirror View Post
        1. So why did you have children knowing that?

        2. There are plenty of men who try to avoid their responsibilities. The CMS tries to counter that.

        3. The family justice system changed big time in 1969. Minor changes in 1987. BrilloPad was in his Batman outfit in 2003. So knowing all that, why have children?

        4. You have an odd way of caring.

        5. Given the number of men on CUK who are divorced, doesn't it worry you that not one has come out in your support?

        You should ask yourself, what would BrilloPad do?
        1. No one goes into a marriage expecting it to not work out. That's such a stupid question I feel stupider for having answered it seriously.

        2. Okay, so you accept they use dirty tricks and that it's okay to use such tricks in kind.

        3. See 1.

        4. Okay. I'm not interested in your views on how much I care or not.

        5. I answered that already. They're probably expecting to get a reaction similar to what I have been getting. Also men are not as tribe-minded as women, this is just one of the many reasons we are getting our asses handed to us by the political+justice systems. Also you didn't actually respond to my 5th point, clearly you are unable to, you managed to skirt around it and hope I didn't notice.
        Last edited by gts; 27 September 2018, 12:34.

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          Originally posted by gts View Post
          That is totally defeatist, spineless and pathetic. I can act now to prevent the money from going up in smoke *now*. Why shouldn't I?

          Also, the child maintenance requirement is different from alimony. CM continues until the child is 18. It doesn't stop with remarriage.

          >MGTOW youtube videos

          Ah, so you are a confirmed simp then. Thanks for clearing that one up for the audience.
          Listen, you asked for a counter-argument.....ta-da, that was it.

          Label it however you want but you asked if it made more sense to..... - I humbly suggested no, as has been detailed in my prior post.

          Being aware of things like MGTOW, does not imply anything about the person other than they are informed and not ignorant.... otherwise the same would be true of you, since you know what it means...lol

          Look it's obvious to everyone reading, that you came here to have your view(s) confirmed by us, but since we were not part of your confirmation bias (i.e. we disagreed with you) - you are now ranting/abusing everyone else as a way to deflect from your own cognitive dissonance on the matter.

          Still, keep digging, it's your right
          Originally posted by Old Greg
          I admit I'm just a lazy, lying cretinous hypocrite and must be going deaf
          ♕Keep calm & carry on♕

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            Originally posted by gts View Post
            I've never come across mods who get this salty on the internet, ever..

            Then stop swallowing!
            Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much.

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              Originally posted by Bean View Post
              Look it's obvious to everyone reading, that you came here to have your view(s) confirmed by us, but since we were not part of your confirmation bias (i.e. we disagreed with you) - you are now ranting/abusing everyone else as a way to deflect from your own cognitive dissonance on the matter.

              Still, keep digging, it's your right
              So asking a question about how to not get shafted by CM payments means I'm here looking for confirmation by some randos I didn't even know existed until yesterday? Mmm-hmm.

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                Originally posted by vetran View Post
                Then stop swallowing!
                Be quiet you self-admitted cuk.

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                  Originally posted by Bean View Post
                  Listen, you asked for a counter-argument.....ta-da, that was it.

                  Label it however you want but you asked if it made more sense to..... - I humbly suggested no, as has been detailed in my prior post.

                  Being aware of things like MGTOW, does not imply anything about the person other than they are informed and not ignorant.... otherwise the same would be true of you, since you know what it means...lol

                  Look it's obvious to everyone reading, that you came here to have your view(s) confirmed by us, but since we were not part of your confirmation bias (i.e. we disagreed with you) - you are now ranting/abusing everyone else as a way to deflect from your own cognitive dissonance on the matter.

                  Still, keep digging, it's your right
                  Also, regarding the MGTOW thing, you seem aware of it yet seem to disavow it. The only logical explanation being that you are indeed a simp/female.

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                    Originally posted by gts View Post
                    So asking a question about how to not get shafted by CM payments means I'm here looking for confirmation by some randos I didn't even know existed until yesterday? Mmm-hmm.
                    Thing is no-one here things the CM payments are unreasonable. You might have a point about the mods being unreasonable. But not the CM payments.

                    Many posters here have been in the same position you are in. But fought for their children.

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                      Originally posted by gts View Post
                      Be quiet you self-admitted cuk.

                      you love it,,,, you tart!
                      Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much.

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