Now that explains a lot

[vetran]

No, that's Neil Kinnock you are thinking of.

HTH

no he was just a champagne socialist. Didn't affect me.

[vetran]

But she is also an attention seeker - selfie queen or some'it like th't (I've never typed northern before...).

and in light of the new information we may now know why hence my apology for deriding her for being an attention seeking selfie queen.

[kaiser78]

and in light of the new information we may now know why hence my apology for deriding her for being an attention seeking selfie queen.

I am not sure how this would correlate.

[vetran]

I am not sure how this would correlate.

https://www.nspcc.org.uk/preventing-...ptoms-effects/

Long term effects of abuse and neglect include:

emotional difficulties such as anger, anxiety, sadness or low self-esteem
mental health problems such as depression, eating disorders, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), self harm, suicidal thoughts
problems with drugs or alcohol
disturbing thoughts, emotions and memories that cause distress or confusion
poor physical health such as obesity, aches and pains
struggling with parenting or relationships
worrying that their abuser is still a threat to themselves or others
learning difficulties, lower educational attainment, difficulties in communicating
behavioural problems including anti-social behaviour, criminal behaviour.

She may well be feeling unwanted as a result of the abuse so she tries to make herself wanted by being attention seeking. Obviously I'm not a Psychiatrist etc.

Whatever its sad, poor girl.

[oracleslave]

I have nothing but sympathy for her

You sure you don't want her to "tool up" and go round her brother house and give him a good kicking a la your views on Eric Bristow?

Sexist.

[BrilloPad]

You sure you don't want her to "tool up" and go round her brother house and give him a good kicking a la your views on Eric Bristow?

Sexist.

I thought the idea was to throw darts at the perp's head?

[d000hg]

https://www.nspcc.org.uk/preventing-...ptoms-effects/




She may well be feeling unwanted as a result of the abuse so she tries to make herself wanted by being attention seeking. Obviously I'm not a Psychiatrist etc.

Whatever its sad, poor girl.

Sounds pretty standard. The bullied become bullies, the sexually abused get their validation and self-worth through being wanted sexually, etc, etc.