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Stone me, maybe BrilloPad was right!
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While you are rant and wail about the parents, and personal attacks on me, how about a thought for the child? It must be totally devastating.
I hope there will be some sort of sharing of parental responsibilities so that contact with both parents can be maintained.
For a system totally geared to the mother, she must have done some very bad stuff to lose custody. Does not mean she should not be fully involved with the child's upbringing though. For the sake of the child.Comment
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Originally posted by MarillionFan View PostIt was just in case we had any Mr Magoos
Cheers for thinking of us though.Comment
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Originally posted by BrilloPad View PostWhile you are rant and wail about the parents, and personal attacks on me, how about a thought for the child? It must be totally devastating.
I hope there will be some sort of sharing of parental responsibilities so that contact with both parents can be maintained.
For a system totally geared to the mother, she must have done some very bad stuff to lose custody. Does not mean she should not be fully involved with the child's upbringing though. For the sake of the child.Originally posted by Stevie Wonder BoyI can't see any way to do it can you please advise?
I want my account deleted and all of my information removed, I want to invoke my right to be forgotten.Comment
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Originally posted by SimonMac View PostSo are you saying even a bad mother deserves some contact?
What is more difficult is where a parent does not want contact with a child. You can guess my thoughts on such scum. But how can you force that?
BTW children almost always want contact, unless there is Parental Alienation Syndrome(PAS). Maybe that was what happened in this case? Hard to tell as details are hidden(quite rightly).Comment
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Originally posted by SimonMac View PostSo are you saying even a bad mother deserves some contact?
As Brillo pointed out its the child first, they aren't responsible for and shouldn't suffer because of a mess the parents make.Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much.Comment
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Originally posted by BrilloPad View PostI believe the answer is yes. More importantly I would like the contact to be meaningful. I don't want to see "McMums". Children can get by on 1 parent - I did. But its *usually* better with both parents involved.
What is more difficult is where a parent does not want contact with a child. You can guess my thoughts on such scum. But how can you force that?
BTW children almost always want contact, unless there is Parental Alienation Syndrome(PAS). Maybe that was what happened in this case? Hard to tell as details are hidden(quite rightly).
I have seen examples of many children who have been disaffected by the missing parents absence for so long, that when (usually) the dad comes back in their life as a McDad as you put it the children are hesitant to see the other parent after so long because that is not the norm for them anymoreOriginally posted by Stevie Wonder BoyI can't see any way to do it can you please advise?
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Originally posted by SimonMac View PostIts not always clear cut though, "my" eldest two have abosultly no contact with thier real dad, and I truely believe it is in their best interest.
Originally posted by SimonMac View PostI have seen examples of many children who have been disaffected by the missing parents absence for so long, that when (usually) the dad comes back in their life as a McDad as you put it the children are hesitant to see the other parent after so long because that is not the norm for them anymoreComment
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Has she been jailed yet?What happens in General, stays in General.You know what they say about assumptions!Comment
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Originally posted by MarillionFan View PostHas she been jailed yet?“The period of the disintegration of the European Union has begun. And the first vessel to have departed is Britain”Comment
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