SC Cleared BUT may end up with a Conviction for S2 Harassment !! Advice Please !!

[northernladuk]

waffle

None of that will matter a jot. Just follow the standard advice given in the sticky. FWIW IMO you won't have a problem. It's not dishonesty or makes you a financial risk.

[Dallas]

Been here before, search the threads.

[MancAnt]

None of that will matter a jot. Just follow the standard advice given in the sticky. FWIW IMO you won't have a problem. It's not dishonesty or makes you a financial risk.

Cheers NorthernLadUK.... appreciate all your help and advice in this matter .

[stek]

Is the other bloke Arsene Wenger?

[MancAnt]

Been here before, search the threads.

When you say been here before do you mean from a personal point of view or as in "seen it all before" on these forums pal?

[northernladuk]

When you say been here before do you mean from a personal point of view or as in "seen it all before" on these forums pal?

I believe he means on the forums. This type of stuff was asked so much we started a sticky.

[MancAnt]

Is the other bloke Arsene Wenger?

Mate hes worse than him.... Both him and his wife are not liked much in the grassroots football scene.His team he managed has now folded.....i wonder why...

[stek]

Mate hes worse than him.... Both him and his wife are not liked much in the grassroots football scene.His team he managed has now folded.....i wonder why...

My bro manages in the Bolton Junior League, he loves it but he gets too embroiled!!

One of his previous (non-Junior) teams he managed he had newly retired (Supa) John McGinlay playing, provided he only played in defence or midfield! Still ended up leading scorer...

One time he took an under performing player off at half time, second half went worse, McGin was shouting at my bro, 'WTF, we're getting over here!'. The look on my bro's face when he suddenly remembered he'd forgotten to bring the sub on......

[psychocandy]

How long have you got !!!!
Ill break it down as best as i can - I have a number of witnesses re the S2 POA/Harassment Offence that i am being accused of . There has to be 2 clear cut times/occasions. I contacted him via a mobile phone call and he is saying i said one thing whereas i have my own story of what went on ( i rang him after he managed a team that his Son played for who played my Sons team and all the way through it both him and his wife goaded the referee to book my Son, basically bullying him all the way through the game . The referee under pressure did so and my Son got really upset and i had to console him as he was crying e.t.c.).My phone call inolved me asking him if he had a problem with my Son and he basically fobbed me off. I told him we needed to resolve this as adults/grownups and he seemed to take it the wrong way ). I Then i attended a cup final that his team were involved in but made no contact with him whatsoever and was invited by other colleagues and the manager of my Sons football team to watch. I merely watched the final and then left ( not even going within 50 yards of this chap). I was also at a tournament where my Sons team progressed to the Semi Final and then the final. Both the complainant, His Wife ( who is a real gobby person and horrible ) and his Son were at the tournament. His Son got knocked out of the tournament but they chose to stay and Cheer for the other teams we played and basically goad my Son and e.t.c. We lost the final and when the other team scored they were all jumping up and down e.t.c . My Son also seemed affected by this. Once the match ended i walked over to him and spoke with him regarding upsetting my Son and my partner. I told him the sillyness e.t.c ended now and that i didnt want to be inolved in all this anymore. My Sons manager them came over and told me to not both as they werent worth it. We then proceeded to take down our event shelter and he was stood literally 5 to 10 yards away talking to a couple of people i knew.He put in his statement that i threatened him and was abusive and feared for his life. I have a decent solicitor and have had to pay in excess of £1600 to cover my case. I also have 4 witnesses, 2 of which will back up my story and will also vouch for the fact that if he feared for his life why after i spoke to him was he stood literally 5 yards away minutes later !!! mad
Sorry to waffle on ...just wanted to give you more of a breakdown on the circumstances.
I also made a complaint to the FA as did he apparently but nothing has come of it.
I never once threatened him with violence ...... even my solicitor says its silly it has gone this far

The world is full of bellends matey. And you can't win. I suspect whatever you did this guy was looking for it and has managed to get what he wants now - i.e. you getting into grief.

I've had similar hassles with neighbour. His life seems to be about causing grief and getting one up. I know that hes just waiting for me to do something so he can call the police....

[MancAnt]

My bro manages in the Bolton Junior League, he loves it but he gets too embroiled!!

One of his previous (non-Junior) teams he managed he had newly retired (Supa) John McGinlay playing, provided he only played in defence or midfield! Still ended up leading scorer...

One time he took an under performing player off at half time, second half went worse, McGin was shouting at my bro, 'WTF, we're getting over here!'. The look on my bro's face when he suddenly remembered he'd forgotten to bring the sub on......

Grassroots football can be a nasty place at times pal ...its not the players that are at fault...its normally the parents or Managers/Coaches
Bolton Junior League is a decent league with some top teams in it. My lad plays in the Salford Junior Leagues