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		I tried to help you, you refused.
I tried to guide you, you refused.
I tried to empathise with you, you mocked me.
My dreams are currently dreams because I have not started to work out how to achieve them. You say you have dreams, but you're telling us about what you are currently doing to achieve them. That means they are goals. And if you've got goals, then you need to have thought them through.
My dream about a vineyard? Well, I am looking out for appropriate plots of land, sometimes I say to my wife "that would make a good vineyard" - even if it is on public land, I just spot the land that looks good. I don't have the time right now to do it, or turn it into a goal, but I can dream about it without doing anything that ties up money or time or makes any commitment from me.
My dream about the sports car? I could buy one but I have nowhere to keep it. It's a dream for the future when we move to our next house (probably 20+ years away). No point in making it a goal as it is impractical right now.
My dream about doing the grand tour? It would require both of us being retired so we can take 3+ months off. It would also tie in nicely with having an open top vintage sports car. No point in making it a goal as it is impractical right now.
My dream about making my own gin? I've hinted to my wife that I want a still for Christmas. To do it properly I need to replace one of our sheds so I have room to set up the still in it, rather than in the house. In preparation for that, I moved a few plants in the garden this summer and put in a new path. The pre-requisites are being put into place. Even if I don't make my own gin, having a new shed is something I want - a goal in the next year. Even if I don't make my own gin, having a still is something I want - if Santa doesn't get me one, I'll buy one myself in the next year.
That's the status of my dreams. None of them rely on tax rates, setting up multiple companies, dividends, yields or anything like that. If the stock market crashes, my dreams won't disappear. If rules change and I have to pay backdated taxes, my dreams are still there. If I choose to get a new car, or not, it doesn't affect my dreams, because they are dreams. Once I turn them into goals and start working towards seriously achieving them, then external influences come into play, and that's when planning and risk management comes into it.
It's a shame you don't want to accept free advice given from others based on their knowledge, their experience, their goals and their dreams.




 
				 
				 
				 
				
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