Reply to: Woman jailed for sex with 12 year old boy

[TimberWolf]

Its like the drowning in a barrel of whiskey joke where the person got out 10 times to go for a piss.

(first time I've heard that joke)

I've vague recollections about 3 blokes in a boat floating on a sea of alcohol, but that's all I can remember about that joke. It's the way I tell 'em.

[SuperZ]

Our responsibility as adults is not to exploit that. She is still a paedophile, but because (like you say) it's perceived that the males of the species are more "in control", it isn't reported in the same way as if a 12 year old girl had begged a 36 year old man to take her to bed, for example.

As for the point about harrassment at work, not sure I agree entirely. I have never 'reported' anyone for harrassment, but have been (and possibly am being) subject to it, as most girlies on here probably have. Unless it becomes physical, I am also usually able to handle it.

Yep, exactly, she is a paedophile, but is is interesting why it is perceived differently and in this case some people can find it slightly amusing.

[OwlHoot]

Yes but they weren't and, given the difference in attitudes of the sexes to casual sex, that is very relevent.

Being that age before soft porn was readily available in shops I had to make do with my sister's copies of Horse and Hound.

At times it must have been hard to decide, between them and some of the society gels, which was which.

Didn't you also read National Geographic, for the more ethnic dimension?

[MaryPoppins]

True, and I'm sure this could cause disagreement, but male and female bodies are a little different, as they are psychologically different also.

Lets consider sexual harrassment. As an adult, in the workplace I have been sexually harrassed by a much older woman before, but if I had reported it people would find it rather funny. Why didn't I report it? Because I found it amusing also. Sure I felt uncomfortable at times. Women however are likely to take it a little more seriously, and are more sensitive in such matters than guys. If a women gets unwanted attention from a guy she is much much more likely to report it than a guy getting unwanted attention from a women.

Rightly or wrongly, I see a 12 year old girl as more delicate that a 12 year old boy who is likely even around that age to want to stick his thing in places...any place . Forget politics and correctness and equality, a 12 year old girl being unwantedly stuffed by a 36 year old guy is more disgusitng than a 12 year old boy getting a stiffy and pronging a 36 year old women, is it not? Males do have a little more control over such matters also.

Sure - he is 12 years old, and thinks that is what he wants. Our responsibility as adults is not to exploit that. She is still a paedophile, but because (like you say) it's perceived that the males of the species are more "in control", it isn't reported in the same way as if a 12 year old girl had begged a 36 year old man to take her to bed, for example.

As for the point about harrassment at work, not sure I agree entirely. I have never 'reported' anyone for harrassment, but have been (and possibly am being) subject to it, as most girlies on here probably have. Unless it becomes physical, I am also usually able to handle it.

[SuperZ]

WSS. Twelve year olds are children. Not borderline adults, but kids.

True, and I'm sure this could cause disagreement, but male and female bodies are a little different, as they are psychologically different also.

Lets consider sexual harrassment. As an adult, in the workplace I have been sexually harrassed by a much older woman before, but if I had reported it people would find it rather funny. Why didn't I report it? Because I found it amusing also. I never even considered it harrassment until I told a female friend about it.Sure I felt uncomfortable at times. Women however are likely to take it a little more seriously, and are more sensitive in such matters than guys. If a women gets unwanted attention from a guy she is much much more likely to report it than a guy getting unwanted attention from a women.

Rightly or wrongly, I see a 12 year old girl as more delicate that a 12 year old boy who is likely even around that age to want to stick his thing in places...any place . Forget politics and correctness and equality, a 12 year old girl being unwantedly stuffed by a 36 year old guy is more disgusitng than a 12 year old boy getting a stiffy and pronging a 36 year old women, is it not? Males do have a little more control over such matters also.

How many guys who were drugged, tied up and later raped by two women would report it? I don't think I would. Why not? Well, in a stressful situation I wouldn't even be able to erm perform. If I did perform, then obviously I would be happy with the situation

Don't get me wrong, that situation is wrong, but 200 times? THis should be a story of "36 year old TRIED to seduce 12 year old boy but boy reported it"

[xoggoth]

Yes, MP that's what I meant too. I knew one bloke of school it happened to (although he was 15, not 12) and we were all full of envy.

PS It is nature which defines who is adult and who isn't, the legal definition is a compromise. Probably some 18 year olds are less ready for relationships than some 14 year olds.

[mudskipper]

Actually, I'd like to make a serious point. Would we be laughing if she was a he, and he was a 12 year old girl?
Probably not ...

WSS. Twelve year olds are children. Not borderline adults, but kids.

[lightng]

Wasn't she on "Take Me Out" last week?

[MaryPoppins]

Yes but they weren't and, given the difference in attitudes of the sexes to casual sex, that is very relevent.

I was more referring to the childs age.

[xoggoth]

Yes but they weren't and, given the difference in attitudes of the sexes to casual sex, that is very relevent.

Being that age before soft porn was readily available in shops I had to make do with my sister's copies of Horse and Hound.

[MaryPoppins]

I think dipping his wick was more reward to him than a pair of trainers!

Interesting though, people's reaction to stories like this - I wonder what the reaction would be if the genders were reversed.

[BolshieBastard]

Nah, it says he got a pair of trainers as a 'reward' for the 100th time.

I think dipping his wick was more reward to him than a pair of trainers!

[SuperZ]

That's more of a GILF, or better still a GiNlf (N meaning NOT).

Eww, she hasn't exactly matured into a sexy older woman some kid might fancy.

Best go to specsavers, poor kid. Hope they have offered him some psychiatrict help

[MaryPoppins]

Yeah but 200 times? He was sure put off by the 50th

Nah, it says he got a pair of trainers as a 'reward' for the 100th time.

[Zippy]

Actually, I'd like to make a serious point. Would we be laughing if she was a he, and he was a 12 year old girl?
Probably not ...