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And this is following on from the mobile phone bill incident?
IMO relationships fail for 2 reasons : money and sex. Please dont go down the path I went down!
Yes this in addition to that. I wasn't too bothered about the request for money; as I have learnt not to be a soft tulipe. However, when I found out that she had a pile of cash in the bank while I had settled her default notice from Barclaycard I was somewhat less than impressed.
Some gambing site or another. Her latest scheme is to play these sites to win as much of the bonus back as possible. In fairness to her it seems to be working so far.
She put £100 in to Bet365 and withdrew £165; 888.com was £100 in and £205 out!
But I just don't want to be lending her money for gambling as she has a poor record for paying me back! Very poor - which is why she has no debit / credit cards of her own to use. This is not my fault or problem though - and merely an accurate reflection by the banks of her suitability for financial products requiring a modicom of common sense.
Some gambing site or another. Her latest scheme is to play these sites to win as much of the bonus back as possible. In fairness to her it seems to be working so far.
She put £100 in to Bet365 and withdrew £165; 888.com was £100 in and £205 out!
But I just don't want to be lending her money for gambling as she has a poor record for paying me back! Very poor - which is why she has no debit / credit cards of her own to use. This is not my fault or problem though - and merely an accurate reflection by the banks of her suitability for financial products requiring a modicom of common sense.
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Oh dear.....
Bazza gets caught
Socrates - "The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing."
Yes this in addition to that. I wasn't too bothered about the request for money; as I have learnt not to be a soft tulipe. However, when I found out that she had a pile of cash in the bank while I had settled her default notice from Barclaycard I was somewhat less than impressed.
Which path was that?
Your situation does not sound good!
Basically I found myself denied access to my kids and lost all my assets/income in the divorce. After I joined f4j (and with ALOT of help from Mrs BP) I slowly turned things around.
You never know anyone until you divorce them. And divorce comes from the latin word to rip out a mans genital via his wallet.
These days I am alot more normal than I was : ask CM or Churchill. But if I get some terminal disease I intend to get a gun and go on a spree the like of which this country has not seen before. The wounds are buried but will never go.
If you have even the slightest doubt then dont do it. please.
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