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Anyway, I am going to refresh and recharge, and then hit the market again in a few weeks. Co-incidentally I'm on the bench from Monday, so I'll be checking Jobserve with one eye, and DatingDirect with the other
Good man.... best advice is to now shag all her mates
She has made it clear that it's over this time. I tried to persuade her otherwise, but to be honest, my heart wasn't in it. I would be happy to carry on going out with her, but she wants more than that (fair enough). Maybe in time my feelings would change, but not right now.
Anyway, I am going to refresh and recharge, and then hit the market again in a few weeks. Co-incidentally I'm on the bench from Monday, so I'll be checking Jobserve with one eye, and DatingDirect with the other
Ah honey - it sounds like its just one of those things. The timing wasn't right for you, and you can't be bullied into "settling down" if it doesn't feel right. Most men get nudged into it, but only because they're nearly ready. You dont sound like you're even half ready, so you did the right thing.
You sound like such a top bloke Burdock - you'll not be single for long if you dont want to be
She has made it clear that it's over this time. I tried to persuade her otherwise, but to be honest, my heart wasn't in it. I would be happy to carry on going out with her, but she wants more than that (fair enough). Maybe in time my feelings would change, but not right now.
Anyway, I am going to refresh and recharge, and then hit the market again in a few weeks. Co-incidentally I'm on the bench from Monday, so I'll be checking Jobserve with one eye, and DatingDirect with the other
I met Mrs OG 11 years ago (we were so young!). We moved in together 7 years ago and we've been married 2 years. The only change it's made is that we feel closer. This weekend, she's off doing her own thing, and next weekend I'm off to see friends on my own. Commitment doesn't stop you being an individual.
When your wife is your best friend, you have it all
Besides they are a calming influence and usually manage to stop our more ridiculous excesses
This is all getting a bit "Our Tune"
That said, I met Mrs F 13 years ago, started going out December 1994, engaged November 1995, married August 1999. Even the kids don't really stop us doing what we want (it does remove the spontaneity though ) - we have nice parents who look after them for us - we had two weeks in Hawaii a couple of years ago, and a week in Goa this year with no kids.
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