Up (date)

[cailin maith]

How did it go at the weekend???

[alreadypacked]

Yeah? And who the **** are you?

So, we are waiting for an up date from you and wendio, who had a lunch date on Friday. Spill

[el dudester]

How did it go at the weekend???

I basically told her that we needed to slow down and take a break. It was getting silly 7 dates in 2 weeks?!?!

I spoke to her again last night after thinking about it this weekend, and am meeting her for coffee after work, to tell her that i want to end it properly.

On Saturday night, i met the other girl in Hampstead, for drinks and dinner, and we had a great time. I really like her we get on really well and i really fancy her.

However, there is always a catch.

The girl i really like, is going to work on location for a month in Sept, and then in Oct she is going travelling for 3+months....

She says this isnt a problem?!?! WTF?!

[Old Greg]

I basically told her that we needed to slow down and take a break. It was getting silly 7 dates in 2 weeks?!?!

I spoke to her again last night after thinking about it this weekend, and am meeting her for coffee after work, to tell her that i want to end it properly.

On Saturday night, i met the other girl in Hampstead, for drinks and dinner, and we had a great time. I really like her we get on really well and i really fancy her.

However, there is always a catch.

The girl i really like, is going to work on location for a month in Sept, and then in Oct she is going travelling for 3+months....

She says this isnt a problem?!?! WTF?!

Sounds like you need someone who wants to see you a bit more often than the girl who's going away.

[cailin maith]

I basically told her that we needed to slow down and take a break. It was getting silly 7 dates in 2 weeks?!?!

I spoke to her again last night after thinking about it this weekend, and am meeting her for coffee after work, to tell her that i want to end it properly.

On Saturday night, i met the other girl in Hampstead, for drinks and dinner, and we had a great time. I really like her we get on really well and i really fancy her.

However, there is always a catch.

The girl i really like, is going to work on location for a month in Sept, and then in Oct she is going travelling for 3+months....

She says this isnt a problem?!?! WTF?!

You did the right thing, no point leading her on any more!! You need to decide if this new girl is worth the wait of 3 months.....

[smee.again]

I spoke to her again last night after thinking about it this weekend, and am meeting her for coffee after work, to tell her that i want to end it properly.

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So, you can't just TXT her...or maybe e-mail????

[el dudester]

You did the right thing, no point leading her on any more!! You need to decide if this new girl is worth the wait of 3 months.....

Well, she is also a freelancer, so i can understand where she is coming from. However, i am more concerned about her motives? Does she just want a good time and a man to fill the gap before she goes away on her adventures?

Or does she think she can keep a relationship going? It is well to early to ask her such questions, ive only dated her twice!

Personally, im more attracted to a girl who is doing alot in her life and is not sticking to me like glue. Its less suffocating.

[el dudester]

So, you can't just TXT her...or maybe e-mail????

i thought that would be quite rude and wrong.

[smee.again]

i thought that would be quite rude and wrong.

Yeah, your probably right...

[cailin maith]

Well, she is also a freelancer, so i can understand where she is coming from. However, i am more concerned about her motives? Does she just want a good time and a man to fill the gap before she goes away on her adventures?

Or does she think she can keep a relationship going? It is well to early to ask her such questions, ive only dated her twice!

Personally, im more attracted to a girl who is doing alot in her life and is not sticking to me like glue. Its less suffocating.

Ummmm maybe she is, but I doubt it, not if she has said it won't be a problem for her... but if it is for you, is it worth pursuing it?