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[el dudester]

You mean you don't fancy her? I am confused...

Sorry, i meant dont fancy.

But she is such a NICE girl. She wanted me to go with her, cause she didnt want to go alone. I feel obliged to go with her, just because of that.

However, i have met another girl, who i do fancy and really want to spend Sat with her.

[cailin maith]

Sorry, i meant dont fancy.

But she is such a NICE girl. She wanted me to go with her, cause she didnt want to go alone. I feel obliged to go with her, just because of that.

However, i have met another girl, who i do fancy and really want to spend Sat with her.

Never, ever do it out of pity - she would hate that. If thats how you really feel, you have done the right thing and knocked it on the head...

Seriously though, you can't have your cake and eat it, it might feel tulipe now but you'll get over it as will she....

[Diver]

Sir! you are a cad and a bounder.
Don't know why I talked them into letting you back

[BA to the Stars]

Pal, you must do what you feel is right for you. If you see nice girl only as a friend and not in the condosending way that it is sometimes used but literally someone who you can have a chat with with absolutely nothing sexual in your relationship, tell her that is what you want.

You have got to be happy and if you are sad and feel trapped it is not fair on the other person. For a relationship to work, it has to be wanted by both parties to it.

Just be honest with yourself and the girls that you are dating - you may not find the right one straight away.

Have a good weekend.

[Diver]

Just go and get some duder.

[BA to the Stars]

Instead i have agreed to go out to a Lesbian Party and dinner date with a new girl i met.

That is one heck of a date

Could open up a whole new thread of wierd and wonderful dates

[Old Greg]

He'll end up in a gimp suit, you mark my words...

End up? He'll be wearing it out.

[Burdock]

Instead i have agreed to go out to a Lesbian Party and dinner date with a new girl i met.

...and your internat mates, Duder! and your internet mates

[el dudester]

Never, ever do it out of pity - she would hate that. If thats how you really feel, you have done the right thing and knocked it on the head...

Seriously though, you can't have your cake and eat it, it might feel tulipe now but you'll get over it as will she....

ITs not pity. Its just that shes such a beautiful geniune girl. Ive not really met a girl like that before. But sexually, it aint happening. I dont feel like i want to bounce her off the walls....

[Diver]

God I'm glad I married.
I couldn't go through all that again.
Ever considered celibacy duder, lot less effort and a lot less confusing