Originally posted by mudskipper
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Going back to how this exchange started, however, my grief isn't so much with the single mothers, but with the choices men and women make in relationships that lead to unemployable single mothers once the relationship fails (and most of relationships fail). That's down to all those women (and it is generally women) who are happy to take several years off or never even set out to have a career because they're happy living off their partners income. And of course the men who enable this lifestyle choice. It's all sweet while they're together, but once the couple separates it leaves countless women with few options outside of benefit-smooching.
The point of this rant being that you get a lot of right-wingers whingeing about benefit-leeches, while hailing the traditionalist family model of the single-earner. Yet somehow people don't make the connection that the latter is precisely what sets many women out to become part of the former sooner or later.
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