Gay footballers

[Doggy Styles]

Just because anyone you chat up in the pub doesn't fall for your charms doesn't make them a lesbian!!! Maybe you're just an ugly fecker?!!!

I was actually being serious though. I've worked with a few gay women in the last few years, been out socially with others, and hetero ladies in their company don't bat an eyelid. Ladies don't seem to think it's that big a deal.

[mudskipper]

But do men think it's a big deal? Going out in a group with friends, one of whom is gay, no-one bats an eyelid.

I think one difference is that many men find the idea of lesbian women a turn on (and perhaps a bit of a joke), whereas no-one except gay men finds the idea of blokes giving each other one particularly horny.

[Doggy Styles]

But do men think it's a big deal? Going out in a group with friends, one of whom is gay, no-one bats an eyelid.

I think one difference is that many men find the idea of lesbian women a turn on (and perhaps a bit of a joke), whereas no-one except gay men finds the idea of blokes giving each other one particularly horny.

You're probably right, that's part of it.

In my limited experience, attitudes from groups of straight men to gay men (particularly those they don't know personally) seem to be different to those from straight women to gay women. Not necessarily nastily. Testosterone might have something to do with it, and perhaps, without being graphic, the fundamental difference in the natures of men's and women's gay sex which you allude to might have something to do with it as well.

[Old Hack]

Education is the key difference between the people who play and watch each sport.