How many divorces?

[IR35FanClub]

That's incredibly sad. Poor kid.

He doesn't know anything about it - other than we don't talk face to face. Best that way. She never could keep her mouth shut. Finally after years of verbal abuse I finally had enough one day, went to the pub and decided it was put up with it, or get out.

[MaryPoppins]

He doesn't know anything about it - other than we don't talk face to face. Best that way. She never could keep her mouth shut. Finally after years of verbal abuse I finally had enough one day, went to the pub and decided it was put up with it, or get out.

Am sure he will pick up the animosity at some point. Whatever's happened, she had your child. Rise above it!

[SimonMac]

He doesn't know anything about it - other than we don't talk face to face. Best that way. She never could keep her mouth shut. Finally after years of verbal abuse I finally had enough one day, went to the pub and decided it was put up with it, or get out.

What makes you think she doesn't bad mouth you to her friends or family when you are not around, but he can hear?

For a time me and my ex were on bad terms, but we managed to be civil lately for the benefit of the kids, I am not saying its easy but good luck with you and your son

[SimonMac]

Where are you based? You can always come along to Grub Club.

CUK Foodies - Contractor UK Bulletin Board

Ssssshhhhh! The first rule of food club, is we don't talk about food club!

Hey, I didn't realise there was a CUK food club! Awesome. Have you any space for a keen foodie and amateur chef?

Near Woking - Waterloo 30 mins by train.

Poor bastard, did 5 month in Woking earlier this year

[hyperD]

Your fave hobbies are ones you can do on your own and you fill in other time by studying/tinkering with techy stuff. I can completely relate to that but - seriously - you need more.
Go to a CUK drinks thing. They're a good crowd and everyone stands their round (except me , obviously)
Find some study interest where you have to collaborate with people - how about something like canal restoration? Lots of different people (men and women),no need to feel you're on the pull, all go for a pint afterwards, job's a good 'un. Anyhoo, I'm sure you get what I'm saying. Chin up

Thanks Zippy, norrahe's got my details for the grub stuff!

Wow, thanks everyone for your kind comments and support - I feel like Frankenstein when he's been given his lightning bolt! A real and much needed wakeup call - thank you CUKers! I shan't disappoint!

[Freamon]

You missed the option of married but regularly play away.

[speling bee]

You missed the option of married but regularly play away.

Mrs Freamon didn't want to give the game away.

[Freamon]

Mrs Freamon didn't want to give the game away.

Doesn't bother me, I just sit back and count the money she brings in (like a true contractor).