How do you know if a female member of clientco staff likes you.

[EternalOptimist]

That's what I get for typing too fast.

jeez

if typing too fast means no nooky, I will start typing with one hand


....no...wait...

can I un say that?

[cailin maith]

Obey the golden rule.

Don't screw the crew.

Excellent Advice.

[SueEllen]

Your hair looks nice in that Avatar Gentile.

[MarillionFan]

Excellent Advice.

Unless you work for bangboat.com

[MyUserName]

I think that the original post was a wind up but am still following this thread as it is fun.

When Gentile mentioned flirting I think that, rather than openly declare anything indecent or sexual, she meant something more like making small talk with this woman and seeing whether she seemed inclined to reply, smile, drink her coffee in the kitchen whilst chatting to you rather than replying and going back to her desk etc.

Obviously you need to be sensible about what you read into this but if you, for example, ask how her weekend was when you see her in the kitchen making tea and she says "good thanks" over her shoulder and walks back to her desk then she probably is not that interested in you so leave her alone. If she stays to chat and asks you a couple of questions about your weekend then you could chat to her a bit more next time and see where things go.

[DimPrawn]

What?

So I can't even compliment a really smart and attractive member of CUK now?

Jeez, so much jealousy around here....

[Dallas]

Oh come off it. Where do you work, a nunnery? Gently flirting with someone to determine their level of interest (e.g., telling them they look nice that day, or asking if their hair is different), and backing off if they don't appreciate the interest, wouldn't offend anyone with normal sensibilities.

What do you suggest instead? Approaching her father first to ask if you may ask her out on a date? Staring at the floor? Celibacy?

Nah have seen enough slappers get sidelined and outed thats all. London is a village too small for this carry-on.

Your posts are like a troll with pmt.

[SueEllen]

What?

So I can't even compliment a really smart and attractive member of CUK now?

Jeez, so much jealousy around here....

<snort>

[DimPrawn]

<snort>

You had your chance baby.

[SueEllen]

You had your chance baby.