How do you know if a female member of clientco staff likes you.

[MarillionFan]

If you think that merely flirting with someone and backing off as advised if they don't reciprocate is likely to result in a sexual harassment allegation, that says far more about what you think flirting entails than about my advice.

As for your asinine comment about my identity, just like your other unfounded allegation in the pension thread do let me know when and if you're ever prepared to put your money where your mouth is.

I'm prepared to send admin a copy of my driving licence and passport, if you're prepared to send him a photo of yourself holding a message with the apology proposed in the link above. Once he has both in his possession, he can decide which it's appropriate to post.

Until the day you're prepared to take me up on that challenge, you're just yet another big mouth that knows nothing but knows it loudly, hiding behind an alias and an avatar like the coward you are.

Why don't you just send each other a full frontal naked picture of each other and the one with the smallest willy is the lady.

[Gentile]

Yep, ignore this woman, her advice will def get you out the door if you try-it-on with said girl.

Cant we just ban her again - she is a liability and non-representative of the majority of women in IT that I know FFS

Jeez if everyone I smiled at at work thought that I'd be running screaming from the building.

Oh come off it. Where do you work, a nunnery? Gently flirting with someone to determine their level of interest (e.g., telling them they look nice that day, or asking if their hair is different), and backing off if they don't appreciate the interest, wouldn't offend anyone with normal sensibilities.

What do you suggest instead? Approaching her father first to ask if you may ask her out on a date? Staring at the floor? Celibacy?

[cailin maith]

To be fair to Gentile, she may have meant 'light flirting', nothing overtly offensive or too pushy. I always use 'hi baby. wow, it must be freezing out there, yer nips are sticking out like chapel coat pegs'

And isn't it just amazing the results you get with that line....

[EternalOptimist]

Oh come off it. Where do you work, a nunnery? Gently flirting with someone to determine their level of interest (e.g., telling them they look nice that day, or asking if their hair is different), and backing off if they don't appreciate the interest, wouldn't affend anyone with normal sensibilities.

What do you suggest instead? Approaching her father first to ask if you may ask her out on a date? Staring at the floor? Celebacy?

celibacy

[Gentile]

Why don't you just send each other a full frontal naked picture of each other and the one with the smallest willy is the lady.

If that were all it took, MF, you'd have won Miss World years ago.

[SueEllen]

Why don't you just send each other a full frontal naked picture of each other and the one with the smallest willy is the lady.

I was going to ask a question but I just thought better not......

BTW some people - male and female - flirth with everyone. They use it as a method to get what they want it's particularly annoying if they are in sales.

[MarillionFan]

If that were all it took, MF, you'd have won Miss World years ago.

[Gentile]

celibacy

That's what I get for typing too fast.

[doomage]

Obey the golden rule.

Don't screw the crew.

[DimPrawn]

Your hair looks nice in that Avatar Gentile.