Dear Deidre marriage and kids don't interest me

[Churchill]

I think it should be mandatory that a large number of the people on here should be banned from having kids, just saying like

It went well for you, didn't it?

[cojak]

If you are happy, fine, just remember to tell the next gf.

Yep, best to get that conversation out in the open at the very beginning. Then you can't be accused of leading your gf along.

[Churchill]

Yep, best to get that conversation out in the open at the very beginning. Then you can't be accused of leading your gf along.

Like it never happens the other way round?

[TestMangler]

Like it never happens the other way round?

But she will have secretly decided that she could "change him" along the way, and that is acceptable In fact, when she can't change him, she'll just blame him instead.

[Churchill]

But she will have secretly decided that she could "change him" along the way, and that is acceptable In fact, when she can't change him, she'll just blame him instead.

I was commenting on the "All men are bastards" brigade coming out of the woodwork!

[alreadypacked]

I was commenting on the "All men are bastards" brigade coming out of the woodwork!

Churchill is state the obvious mode

[Churchill]

Churchill is state the obvious mode

Ah shaddup you frigid old bint!

[BrilloPad]

Just wondered if anyone when they were in the mid 30's still was not interested in marriage or kids, and if that was the case did that ever change ?

Are you also not interested in a long term relationship either? I am not sure what the difference is between committed relationship and marriage is anyway.

IMO alot of men are not interested in kids until they have them - then they find them enormous fun.

[alreadypacked]

Ah shaddup you frigid old bint!

[EternalOptimist]

Thought about having kids at 18-25
25-30 decided kids were not really want I want
Married BBG at 35 (after 19 years with BBG)
Still kid free & happy with it

I like my life & not having to spend my hard earned pennies on others

Am I selfish: nope I am a realist.

Thats horrible.

Just wait till BGG finds out you have been boning BBG, there will be BIG trouble at the BBQ