Apology - Craig Alexander, 20/02/1970

[cailin maith]

I treat everyone in exactly the same way unless I meet them in IRL and then I can make a decision if I still want to be a <removed>.

You mean you have capacity to be nice?

Oops sorry Admin

[EternalOptimist]

Can any of us honestly say that we are "a person to look up to and say 'thats who I want to be'" by our peers?

you miss the point son. I try to be a role model for my son, not my peers.


now go and tidy that room, you little tyke <clip>

[minestrone]

you miss the point son. I try to be a role model for my son, not my peers.


now go and tidy that room, you little tyke <clip>

Who actually is allowed to judge us/me/you?

What opinion is important?

[cailin maith]

Who actually is allowed to judge us/me/you?

What opinion is important?

It's not about judging - it's about being the best person you can be and if that has a positive influence on others then thats the best thing. In EO's case being a good role model/positive influence for his son.

[minestrone]

It's not about judging - it's about being the best person you can be and if that has a positive influence on others then thats the best thing. In EO's case being a good role model/positive influence for his son.

He never said son in his post, if we were taling about children I would not bring up craig, as far as I know craig does not have a kid, the context is important.

[cailin maith]

He never said son in his post, if we were taling about children I would not bring up craig, as far as I know craig does not have a kid, the context is important.

EO just did

[MarillionFan]

You mean you have capacity to be nice?

NOT AT ALL!

Of course. IRL I'm a pussycat. Shhhh. Between me and you, the whole 'MF beats people up thing in RL' is a CUK meme like the 'Milan changes tapes'. But don't tell anyone if Churchill finds out's I'm in real trouble and my street cred is out the window

[Menelaus]

I'm sure I'm not the only one on here who finds the 'apology' insincere and vaguely disturbing.

If you were truly repentent you wouldn't have had to post this under duress, I had already asked you questions I was curious about after which you lurked and didn't post.

A stint in prison and a few pills (taking your word for it), don't change things so dramatically. You're clever and manipulative and you're playing a game here and who knows where else.

Mr Monaghan, I find the pictures of you on your website to be faintly disturbing but I would - under normal circumstances - try not to be quite so personally insulting. For example, I might make reference to your own BBC appearance ...

I have answered peoples questions here honestly and with as much conviction (some pun intended) as possible. I will not demean myself or the other denizens of this board by bringing up the matters of my relationship with user name "Helen" - despite the matter of fact being more important.

As for my past: nothing can be done to change this other than to spend time working on my own recovery from long-standing psychiatric illness and attempting to "make it up" to those close to me. I have, for example, managed to restore relationships with some of my family.

There comes a point where trying to convince people of change fails: this thread was generated to lift the veil slightly of the media storm that has been generated by others with axes to grind: you will also note that I have made no comment as to the motivation of "Helen" at any point in this exercise.

Mr Monaghan, I am sorry, but if you will not read with a clear mind then I shall not convince you and I would strongly suggest we make a point of avoiding each other here on CUK.

Sincerely

Menelaus / Craig

[Menelaus]

He never said son in his post, if we were taling about children I would not bring up craig, as far as I know craig does not have a kid, the context is important.

I have two children, a daughter and a son.

They are absolutely off-limits for any discussions here.

[Churchill]

I have two children, a daughter and a son.

They are absolutely off-limits for any discussions here.

Nobody was talking about your children - whether they exist or not.

EO was mentioning about being as best a role model as possible for his son.

Minestrone, for all your degrees you can't read English, can you? Drunk again