Are you guys sure that your wives left you because you didn't have a contract, or was it because you were unable to cope with the pressure of being unemployed and you took it all on their wives and turned into control freaks at home??
But I do agree that women do marry up, naturally they like to pair up with someone who is able to protect them and be there to support them both financially and emotionally... if the man has no job and becomes impossible to live with then you are not providing the financial or emotional support ... if your relationship was loving and very strong it should be able to accomodate for that , the wife would switch roles in providing the man with the emotional and perhaps financial support if needed.. we all know many wives stand up by their husbands side even if they fall seriously sick or have affairs, as long as they see that you are being appreciative and loving they'll stick with you.. ... but if your relationship was based on the man controlling every aspect and there is no love then the only reason their wives stuck by their side before is the financial support, once that is not there then there is no reason for them to stick around...
But I do agree that women do marry up, naturally they like to pair up with someone who is able to protect them and be there to support them both financially and emotionally... if the man has no job and becomes impossible to live with then you are not providing the financial or emotional support ... if your relationship was loving and very strong it should be able to accomodate for that , the wife would switch roles in providing the man with the emotional and perhaps financial support if needed.. we all know many wives stand up by their husbands side even if they fall seriously sick or have affairs, as long as they see that you are being appreciative and loving they'll stick with you.. ... but if your relationship was based on the man controlling every aspect and there is no love then the only reason their wives stuck by their side before is the financial support, once that is not there then there is no reason for them to stick around...


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