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Does the contractor lifestyle cause depression/psychotic episodes?

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    #11
    Nothing to do with work, permie or contract, for me. A bad relationship was the root cause in my case.
    "Being nice costs nothing and sometimes gets you extra bacon" - Pondlife.

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      #12
      The root cause of mine was trying too hard to please people and then losing sight of myself.

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        #13
        Originally posted by KentPhilip View Post
        No. Being a permie causes depression/psychotic episodes. The contracting lifestyle frees the mind from all that tulip.
        That's my experience too.
        And what exactly is wrong with an "ad hominem" argument? Dodgy Agent, 16-5-2014

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          #14
          I think working away can lead to problems.
          You can end up doing long days then staring at 4 walls at night. If you are not carful I expect this can lead to depression and more.
          Some contractors over compensate and go from work to the bar to avoid the 4 walls syndrome.
          It is a fine line we walk.
          I am not qualified to give the above advice!

          The original point and click interface by
          Smith and Wesson.

          Step back, have a think and adjust my own own attitude from time to time

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            #15
            Originally posted by The Lone Gunman View Post
            I think working away can lead to problems.
            You can end up doing long days then staring at 4 walls at night. If you are not carful I expect this can lead to depression and more.
            Some contractors over compensate and go from work to the bar to avoid the 4 walls syndrome.
            It is a fine line we walk.
            I find that joing a local gym helps when working away. It's a healthy disctraction from the pub.

            Even having a game of 5 aside football and a few beers after breaks up the week.
            I'm better than dirt. Well, most kinds of dirt, not that fancy store-bought dirt... I can't compete with that stuff.

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              #16
              Originally posted by Rookie View Post
              I find that joing a local gym helps when working away. It's a healthy disctraction from the pub.

              Even having a game of 5 aside football and a few beers after breaks up the week.
              Yep, plus finding a couple of decent friendly restaurants close to your accomodation. A good tough session in the gym and then a solid meal and one or two (but no more) glasses of wine or beer does wonders for one´s mood.
              And what exactly is wrong with an "ad hominem" argument? Dodgy Agent, 16-5-2014

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                #17
                Nope. Diagnosed long before I started working for a living.
                I doubt it makes any difference in my case, but if anything, feeling more in control of my income is probably good for me, regardless of the realities.

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                  #18
                  Originally posted by The Lone Gunman View Post
                  I think working away can lead to problems.
                  You can end up doing long days then staring at 4 walls at night. If you are not carful I expect this can lead to depression and more.
                  Some contractors over compensate and go from work to the bar to avoid the 4 walls syndrome.
                  It is a fine line we walk.
                  Very true, it can be the same for permies too that follow a similar lifestyle. IBM used to stand for "I've got a Broken Marriage" and "I'm Being Mended" with their staff as many got moved round a lot.

                  The contracting lifestyle has lots of stressful situations to deal with that many partners simply can't take which compounds the issues:-
                  • Unreliable income
                  • Huge peaks and troughs in work
                  • Permies that envy, distrust or despise contractors as a whole
                  • Parasitical agents
                  • Hostile tax regimes
                  • Uncertainty over contract duration
                  • Pressure from self and client to take no time off
                  • Delivery pressure
                  • Working away from home
                  • Business admin and responsibility
                  • The sheer lack of stability
                  To some of us these factors are easy to cope with or positives, but if added up or a partner who doesn't really understand the lifestyle is involved the stresses can break things in a metal fatigue manner.

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                    #19
                    jeeez

                    this place is beginning to look like a self help center rather than a contractor's website

                    pecker up lads

                    come on

                    Milan.

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                      #20
                      Originally posted by milanbenes View Post
                      jeeez

                      this place is beginning to look like a self help center rather than a contractor's website

                      pecker up lads

                      come on

                      Milan.
                      FFS I agree with Milan.
                      Bloody fruits and nuts.
                      Hard Brexit now!
                      #prayfornodeal

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