How do I RSVP a wedding invite.

[Sockpuppet]

Been invited to a wedding.

Told my mate I'd go before he even sent the invite. Question is do I have to send a letter to the bride (her name/address is in the invite) or can I just not bother.

I know they know I am coming but will the bride hate me and stab me with a wedding related implement if I don't tow the line and respond as pleasantries dictate.

Also how would I word it. Me being me would just put. "Hi Guys, thanks for the invite. Of course I'll come as long as you keep a bridesmaid free for me". Something tells me that isn't going to cut it.

Not having a better half (the blokes default source of info on these matters) I'm having to google it but that isn't working out too well.

[moorfield]

Get your pimp to phone up and tell her you got a better gig.

[Grinder]

You can get acceptance cards for this sort of thing. I would send one of those - they're having a wedding so they believe in the "tradition".

[Sockpuppet]

You can get acceptance cards for this sort of thing. I would send one of those - they're having a wedding so they believe in the "tradition".

I would say deluded into thinking it'll help pacify their insecurities!

Right...acceptance card. Wonder if Tesco sell them.

[Pogle]

Just check the invite and see if there is a little acceptance card in with it - as it is the fashion these days to send out invitations with a reply card.

Otherwise,
just buy a blank card with a flower or something 'pretty' on the front and write inside:-


Thanks for the wedding invitation I would love to come

<Your name here>

And post it to the address on the invite.

Its just good manners to reply to a formal invite and the Bride will like it.

[cailin maith]

I would say deluded into thinking it'll help pacify their insecurities!

Right...acceptance card. Wonder if Tesco sell them.

They do...

Sheesh.... what are you like?

[zeitghost]

Do Lidl sell them?

[Drewster]

Do Lidl sell them?

even educated fleas sell em!

[cailin maith]

Do Lidl sell them?

I don't think Lidl sell cards at all.... Dunno though!

[BrilloPad]

Dont forget a wedding present. Why not give them a rabbit?