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Is it selfish to have more than two children?
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Is it selfish to have more than two children?
42Yes it is28.57%12No it is not59.52%25andyw was my first child : after that I was sterilized11.90%5 -
If you can provide a stable home and afford to feed them then why not? More than 5 is a bit unfair as one would have to go in the boot if you have a 7 seater.Science isn't about why, it's about why not. You ask: why is so much of our science dangerous? I say: why not marry safe science if you love it so much. In fact, why not invent a special safety door that won't hit you in the butt on the way out, because you are fired. - Cave Johnson -
Thinking about recent news stories you might argue that in some cases it is selfish for people to have one.+50 Xeno Geek Points
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As always, it depends.....I'm better than dirt. Well, most kinds of dirt, not that fancy store-bought dirt... I can't compete with that stuff.Comment
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If you look at the chart here http://newsimg.bbc.co.uk/media/image...lity_gr226.gif
You'll notice that the trend had been towards less children, but the arrival of New Labour and mass uncontrolled and unmonitored immigration from 3rd world countries to the UK from India, Pakistan, Bangladesh (where 10 children is commonplace) has pushed the average right up.Comment
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Originally posted by gingerjedi View PostIf you can provide a stable home and afford to feed them then why not? More than 5 is a bit unfair as one would have to go in the boot if you have a 7 seater.Comment
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It's only selfish if you expect the state to pay for them. HMG should only pay benefits for the first two children, in order to ensure that families do not go into breeding children to the exclusion of supporting themselves.Comment
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Selfish seems like the wrong word for it to me. My philosophy has always been do the job properly to the max of my ability with 2 kids. Additional kids would dilute my ability to give all of my attention to the first 2. I would rather do the parenting job properly with a smaller number as opposed to quite well with more kids.Comment
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My view is it's not selfish as it's potentially denying another person the gift of life.. how can that be selfish?
The only selfishness would be to neglect your kids, but there's nothing to say that having more than 2 means this is always the case. I know lots of people from large families who have a great life.
Let nature take it's course.. life should evolve, not be engineered by perfect scenario social domestic equations.The cycle of life: born > learn > work > learn > dead.Comment
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Selfish ? No.
Cruel ? Probably, considering the world we have bequeathed to them.Of all tyrannies, a tyranny sincerely exercised for the good of its victims may be the most oppressive. It would be better to live under robber barons than under omnipotent moral busybodies. The robber baron's cruelty may sometimes sleep, his cupidity may at some point be satiated; but those who torment us for our own good will torment us without end for they do so with the approval of their own conscience.
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