A Course I am going to do

[BrilloPad]

Why wow?

well I dont know one. my gf has a friend who knows loads - but she runs an orchestra!

Actually we visited her in HK in August - she was really really kind. gf was pregnant and she took me and the twins on 3 days out so gf could rest.

and her husband discovered Sars!

[Lucy]

well I dont know one. my gf has a friend who knows loads - but she runs an orchestra!

Actually we visited her in HK in August - she was really really kind. gf was pregnant and she took me and the twins on 3 days out so gf could rest.

and her husband discovered Sars!

Maybe if you played the cello you would know more.

Why did you stay with gf when she almost certainly lied about the pregnancy thing? (ie oldest trick in the book...)

[BrilloPad]

In a word, no.

And, your problem is you, until you realise that nothing can be done.

oh I know that nothing can be done. all the options that would make my life better would hurst the kids and that I just cant do.

So of my issues will be solved with time.

I am not sure if to switch this to a PM or not - but will say it publically anyway.

You started this thread with "I think I would be a good counsellor." - are you sure about this? You later said you have no patience.

These 2 statements seem incompatable?

I really do mean this in a constructive way.

[BrilloPad]

Maybe if you played the cello you would know more.

Why did you stay with gf when she almost certainly lied about the pregnancy thing? (ie oldest trick in the book...)

She did not lie. I have known her for 5 years - the snip thing was very very arly. She went through mega depression about it - I offered to pay for specialist (though I hoped she would say no!). She just burst into tears!

When she found out she was pregnant it took 3 tests and 2 doctors to convince her - she told the consultant he was lying!

Some things are very very diffucult to fake.

Anyway I am quite pleased in a way. She mentioned the kids were spoiling her singl lifestyle. I aint heard that since!

[Troll]

er. Skinny little ugger she is.

Does than mean you are a bit of a porker then?

[BrilloPad]

Does than mean you are a bit of a porker then?

common troll - personality is far more important than looks.

Anyway, you nknow what these cello players are like...

[Lucy]

oh I know that nothing can be done. all the options that would make my life better would hurst the kids and that I just cant do.

So of my issues will be solved with time.

I am not sure if to switch this to a PM or not - but will say it publically anyway.

You started this thread with "I think I would be a good counsellor." - are you sure about this? You later said you have no patience.

These 2 statements seem incompatable?

I really do mean this in a constructive way.

I am not sure, what I do know is I need to be aware of my flaws. I think in a professional setting I would be able to manage this, as opposed to here where I am happy to have zero patience. Very few counsellors are anywhere near perfect, and I should know I have seen heaps. Mindfullness means I can be aware of my failing and not act on it.

[Lucy]

Does than mean you are a bit of a porker then?

She is about 50kg, I am 55-57kg. If you consider that a porker then trolly, I am.

[Lucy]

She did not lie. I have known her for 5 years - the snip thing was very very arly. She went through mega depression about it - I offered to pay for specialist (though I hoped she would say no!). She just burst into tears!

When she found out she was pregnant it took 3 tests and 2 doctors to convince her - she told the consultant he was lying!

Some things are very very diffucult to fake.

Anyway I am quite pleased in a way. She mentioned the kids were spoiling her singl lifestyle. I aint heard that since!

It is strange that you explained it in a way which did not reflect any of this, your major point was gf got preggers eventhough she was sure she was infertile. Maybe think about how you explain things, even to yourself.

[BrilloPad]

It is strange that you explained it in a way which did not reflect any of this, your major point was gf got preggers eventhough she was sure she was infertile. Maybe think about how you explain things, even to yourself.

She genuinelly thought she was infertile. A doctor told her.

My councellor is attacking me! help me someone - help me...