How do you...

[Moose423956]

I personally believe that everyone has a "true love" somewhere in the world, and as soon as I met b) I knew it was her. I've been in love with her for 6 years, have thought about her every day in that time. I've tried to show my feelings by actions rather than words - money, presents, support when she needed it, etc.

Wifey doesn't know anything about this. I don't know that I ever really loved her - she was the first (and only) woman I had a sexual relationship with, and so I felt a strong bond to her in many ways. Now we have kids I guess the bond is even stronger. We don't hate each other, though I've done some things in my time which she probably hated me for, for a short time at least.

I know what will happen. Nothing. I'll carry on as I am, keeping it all quiet, smiling and going on with life as it is now. I desparately want to move somewhere closer to the sea, as I was brought up in the west country. That would solve the issue with b). But it's not likely to happen, wifey is against moving the kids from the schools they're in. And it does cost a lot to move these days.

Anyway, it's been good to get that off my chest. I can talk to you guys - none of you know me, so you take me for what I say. Perhaps we can draw a line under it there. Time to move on.

As someone once said...NEXT!

[oracleslave]

Trashy, but interesting. Thanks.

sounds like a Jerry Springer episode.

[DBA_bloke]

I personally believe that everyone has a "true love" somewhere in the world, and as soon as I met b) I knew it was her. I've been in love with her for 6 years, have thought about her every day in that time. I've tried to show my feelings by actions rather than words - money, presents, support when she needed it, etc.

I was so hoping that you'd end that with "I love her so much, and it hurts me as much as her when I take her to the vets to be wormed." - ah well.

[Moose423956]

I was so hoping that you'd end that with "I love her so much, and it hurts me as much as her when I take her to the vets to be wormed." - ah well.

[BoredBloke]

"I've been in love with her for 6 years, have thought about her every day in that time. I've tried to show my feelings by actions rather than words "

and as soon as she turns 16 I'll make my move

[milanbenes]

DBA_Bloke,

you should be careful when you say things like,

'Your're not a disgruntled, "my wife was a cow", Fathers for Justice supporter, are you?',


having two infant children whom I could not be without I can sympathise with fathers whose marriages have broken up and through the tangle of it all they have got a bad deal with regards to seeing their children and want to get visibility to this issue, not that I would ever wish that to happen to myself, however I understand that it must be painful not being able to see your children

Moose, it's very easy in life to think the grass grows greener on the other side and not appreciate what we already have.

For the seaside, why not take more trips to the seaside, show your family the beauty in the coast, this might spark your Mrs's interest and start movement in that direction.

All the best. And don't forget to appreciate what you have.

Milan.

[Lucy]

All the best. And don't forget to appreciate what you have.

Milan.

And he got into his passat, and drove off in a cloud of dust.

[BoredBloke]

"For the seaside, why not take more trips to the seaside, show your family the beauty in the coast, this might spark your Mrs's interest and start movement in that direction."

Don't take her to Morcambe. It's sh1t....and if she doesn't go far that there is always plan b involving the wine bottle.

"And he got into his passat, and drove off in a cloud of dust."

....slowly

[milanbenes]

less of it Looncy, I like my Passat.

And you too Tone, how's the Mrs doing ?

Milan.

[DBA_bloke]

DBA_Bloke,

you should be careful when you say things like,

'Your're not a disgruntled, "my wife was a cow", Fathers for Justice supporter, are you?',

Oh dear™

Batman outfit, is it, or did you opt for the more fetching and current Spiderman?