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    #11
    Originally posted by Old Greg
    What have you led her to believe?
    Yeah dated the irish one, but shes a no-goer. I dont chase women.

    I havent really led this one down the garden path, we have been out twice and snogged a few times.

    We do get on very very very well, and talk alot and txt alot on the phone, like everyday. She is very keen and willing to start a relationship, but im still wondering if she is right for me. i.e do i really really fancy this girl or is it that we just get on really really well?

    Thats kinda why i feel a bit weird dating another girl behind her back.

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      #12
      Originally posted by el duder
      Yeah dated the irish one, but shes a no-goer. I dont chase women.

      I havent really led this one down the garden path, we have been out twice and snogged a few times.

      We do get on very very very well, and talk alot and txt alot on the phone, like everyday. She is very keen and willing to start a relationship, but im still wondering if she is right for me. i.e do i really really fancy this girl or is it that we just get on really really well?

      Thats kinda why i feel a bit weird dating another girl behind her back.
      You need to make a decision - just go for it, you might enjoy it and if it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out....... simple as that. If you like her that much, whats the point in leaving it so long she thinks you're not interested?

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        #13
        Originally posted by el duder
        Yeah dated the irish one, but shes a no-goer. I dont chase women.

        I havent really led this one down the garden path, we have been out twice and snogged a few times.

        We do get on very very very well, and talk alot and txt alot on the phone, like everyday. She is very keen and willing to start a relationship, but im still wondering if she is right for me. i.e do i really really fancy this girl or is it that we just get on really really well?

        Thats kinda why i feel a bit weird dating another girl behind her back.
        If you feel weird, you've answered your own question. And if you're not sure, how will you ever be until you've given it a proper try (without dating someone else). And if you turn out to be wron, then you'll be a bit wiser for next time.

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          #14
          Originally posted by Old Greg
          If you feel weird, you've answered your own question. And if you're not sure, how will you ever be until you've given it a proper try (without dating someone else). And if you turn out to be wron, then you'll be a bit wiser for next time.

          Old Greg...... you're sooooo wise!

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            #15
            Originally posted by cailin dana
            Old Greg...... you're sooooo wise!
            You too.

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              #16
              Originally posted by cailin dana
              You need to make a decision - just go for it, you might enjoy it and if it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out....... simple as that. If you like her that much, whats the point in leaving it so long she thinks you're not interested?

              Its different, now i am 30/31, i feel i need to make better judgements/decisions on these things.

              Its different if i were in my 20's, id just give it a go, but at the moment i dont want to be wasting any precious time on women i dont see a future with. If you know what i mean?

              I guess the only way to find out, is to just for it, but im always a bit worried of hurting other people, or getting hurt myself to be honest!

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                #17
                Originally posted by el duder
                Its different, now i am 30/31, i feel i need to make better judgements/decisions on these things.

                Its different if i were in my 20's, id just give it a go, but at the moment i dont want to be wasting any precious time on women i dont see a future with. If you know what i mean?

                I guess the only way to find out, is to just for it, but im always a bit worried of hurting other people, or getting hurt myself to be honest!

                Believe me, I know exactly what you mean..... but you can't go on thinking I'm not sure, so I won't go for it or next thing you'll be 40 and in the same boat - how much harder would it be to find someone then??

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                  #18
                  Originally posted by cailin dana
                  Believe me, I know exactly what you mean..... but you can't go on thinking I'm not sure, so I won't go for it or next thing you'll be 40 and in the same boat - how much harder would it be to find someone then??
                  Yep listen to us and take the plunge. You know it makes sense.

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                    #19
                    next stop kids and a mortgage and you're sorteeeeeeeeeeeeeeed


                    Milan.

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                      #20
                      Originally posted by milanbenes
                      next stop kids and a mortgage and you're sorteeeeeeeeeeeeeeed


                      Milan.
                      And if you're like half the contractors who hang around here, life as a fugitive from the CSA.

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