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Originally posted by DiestlI personally would never leave my daughter for more than 5 mins, even then I would be panicking.
these places are not like skiing chalets that do their own catering and you spend the evenings in. These places deliberatly cater for kids in the day and it is not unreasonable to assume that it is safe to leave your kids asleep whilst you are in the restaurant getting tanked.
It is sheer bad luck and whilst like you many parents will not let their kids out of their sight at all, there is nothing unusual or unreasonable about the actions of these people.Let us not forget EU open doors immigration benefits IT contractors more than anyoneComment
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Originally posted by DodgyAgenteven on a holiday compound? checking every 30 minutes? what would you do? sit in the room with it whilst everyone was down at the restaurant.?
these places are not like skiing chalets that do their own catering and you spend the evenings in. These places deliberatly cater for kids in the day and it is not unreasonable to assume that it is safe to leave your kids asleep whilst you are in the restaurant getting tanked.
It is sheer bad luck and whilst like you many parents will not let their kids out of their sight at all, there is nothing unusual or unreasonable about the actions of these people.Comment
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Originally posted by DodgyAgenteven on a holiday compound? checking every 30 minutes? what would you do? sit in the room with it whilst everyone was down at the restaurant.?
these places are not like skiing chalets that do their own catering and you spend the evenings in. These places deliberatly cater for kids in the day and it is not unreasonable to assume that it is safe to leave your kids asleep whilst you are in the restaurant getting tanked.
It is sheer bad luck and whilst like you many parents will not let their kids out of their sight at all, there is nothing unusual or unreasonable about the actions of these people.Comment
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Not sure I understand the fuss.
The complex offered a baby sitting service which meant that one of the staff checked the kids in the rooms once per hour.
This couple decided they could do a better job themselves by checking back every half hour or more often.
Would the panel be more up in arms had they been using the resorts own baby sitting service?I am not qualified to give the above advice!
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Originally posted by DiestlI would either take my daughter with me or have arranged a baby sittter, or stayed at home, in fact I go on holiday in June and we are taking mother-in-law to help out if we fancy a night out. If you have kids you have to make sacrifices im afraid. It's simple as this, if they had stayed at home they would still have their daughter, harsh but true.Comment
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Originally posted by DiestlI would either take my daughter with me or have arranged a baby sittter, or stayed at home, in fact I go on holiday in June and we are taking mother-in-law to help out if we fancy a night out. If you have kids you have to make sacrifices im afraid. It's simple as this, if they had stayed at home they would still have their daughter, harsh but true.
what you do is your own affair and it is certainly not wrong. What annoys me are these precious parents who come out and start to become judgemental. Whilst I can see where you are coming from I would argue that their behaviour was entirely reasonable.Let us not forget EU open doors immigration benefits IT contractors more than anyoneComment
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Originally posted by DodgyAgentwhat you do is your own affair and it is certainly not wrong. What annoys me are these precious parents who come out and start to become judgemental. Whilst I can see where you are coming from I would argue that their behaviour was entirely reasonable.
I am a parent of two young children and I would never leave them alone in this way because they are defensless against things like fire...that doesn't make me precious it just makes me cautious. I agree with a previous poster that going on holiday can therefore be impractical, so when they were too small to take out with me I didn't go on holiday...but thats my personal choice.
However...there are probably a whole load of other things that I do that others wouldn't that could bite me so I am in no position to judge - for instance, I let my son sit in the front seat which whilst legal I believe to be very slightly less safe than the back seat for minors...the chances of me being in an accident where my son was worse off in the front than in the back are very slim, but it could happen and at that point I could be open to being judged...I suspect it is the same with every parent, we just have different areas where we take a risk.
Another example, for those that want to judge this couple, is the car you drive...how many of you know what crash safety rating your car has and was this the number one factor when choosing it? If it wasn't then it could be argued that you are putting your childs safety at risk.
Lets not judge this couple and just hope that the little girl is safe and well, thank our lucky stars that it hasn't happened to us and go home and give our little ones a big hug...Property advisor for the peopleComment
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Originally posted by VitoI am a parent of two young children and I would never leave them alone in this way because they are defensless against things like fire...that doesn't make me precious it just makes me cautious. I agree with a previous poster that going on holiday can therefore be impractical, so when they were too small to take out with me I didn't go on holiday...but thats my personal choice.
However...there are probably a whole load of other things that I do that others wouldn't that could bite me so I am in no position to judge - for instance, I let my son sit in the front seat which whilst legal I believe to be very slightly less safe than the back seat for minors...the chances of me being in an accident where my son was worse off in the front than in the back are very slim, but it could happen and at that point I could be open to being judged...I suspect it is the same with every parent, we just have different areas where we take a risk.
Another example, for those that want to judge this couple, is the car you drive...how many of you know what crash safety rating your car has and was this the number one factor when choosing it? If it wasn't then it could be argued that you are putting your childs safety at risk.
Lets not judge this couple and just hope that the little girl is safe and well, thank our lucky stars that it hasn't happened to us and go home and give our little ones a big hug...Let us not forget EU open doors immigration benefits IT contractors more than anyoneComment
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Originally posted by XTCYup I agree. There seem to be a lot of people that jump on the band wagon when incidents like this happen. Kids are abducted from parks, shopping centres even from their own beds with their parents sleeping next door. You cannot keep an eye on your kids 100% of the time, what happens when they get older nad want to play outside or in the park, walking home from school etc.
If you want a night out, then do it in the but once you have arranged for the safe care of your children.Comment
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