Update on Tuesday Date...

[realityhack]

I wouldn't try to get her out this fri/sat night as it looks like you have no mates/plans/life.

Really good point - if you absolutely intend to try and make water flow uphill with this one, then don't bother texting/calling back until tuesday next for a thursday night drink.

[realityhack]

Yeah but you've got one of those personalities which make relationships easy. I have too - but not everyone is like us my squirrely friend. We could go into a pub and talk to every single person in it within the space of an hour!

We wouldn't be mortally wounded by the people who wanted nothing to do with us, but we' have phone numbers of the ones who did!

Not everyone finds it this easy, clearly!

Heh - I once started a long-term relationship by mistake! Walked into a club with a mate - who thought he recognised one of two girls on the dancefloor and we went up to say hello - I thought 'any friend of his is a friend of mine' and went to kiss the other girl on the cheek. Missed and snogged her for ages before I found out her name! Great lass. They were stunned.

Edit: What I do find though, is when you've broken up with someone it's hard to 'look for' lurve when single. When in a relationship and out enjoying yourself you're chatted up. Has to be the whole 'trying' thing. Found that when I stopped bothering about whether I was going to pull, stopped trying to impress/please etc. things just happen.

[SallyAnne]

Heh - I once started a long-term relationship by mistake! Walked into a club with a mate - who thought he recognised one of two girls on the dancefloor and we went up to say hello - I thought 'any friend of his is a friend of mine' and went to kiss the other girl on the cheek. Missed and snogged her for ages before I found out her name! Great lass. They were stunned.

That'll be that North East training you've had You never loose it

[realityhack]

That'll be that North East training you've had You never loose it

Aye

[Bagpuss]

Edit: What I do find though, is when you've broken up with someone it's hard to 'look for' lurve when single. When in a relationship and out enjoying yourself you're chatted up. Has to be the whole 'trying' thing. Found that when I stopped bothering about whether I was going to pull, stopped trying to impress/please etc. things just happen.

Women can smell other women on you. Comes back to the femininity challenge that drives women.

[el duder]

Aye

What i dont like about her txt is the 'thank you' part.

It was like acceptance of finalising the date. Or maybe she is being nice about the whole situation?

**** **** **** ****.

[SallyAnne]

Women can smell other women on you. Comes back to the femininity challenge that drives women.

A lot of women are like that, definately.

However, some women also like men who NEVER get shagged though - it's the same thing as fancying young boys..all that testosterone, built up tension, desperation, frustration, complete manly need...

.......off to the loo

[ChimpMaster]

Look mate, trust me this works -- take a picture of ur todger in all its glory, and text it to her with a message along the lines of "thank you..."

[Sockpuppet]

Thats the thing. I dont think she would be bothered either way.

Her attitude and approach is very much, im the beauty your the beast, you should feel damn lucky that you got a date with me.

Take her up the tulipter. That would soon change her tone.

[realityhack]

Take her up the tulipter. That would soon change her tone.

Ah, that's why some blokes are fascinated with @nal - never really understood it myself.