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    #31
    Originally posted by LondonManc View Post
    Are You Cut Out To Be A Contractor
    I've been lurking on these threads long enough to have heard the gist of this one many, many times before! (I didn't know the abbreviation though!)

    Yes, it's dished out to anyone who queries the advice given.

    Am I cut out for contracting? Well, I get great contracts at big brands at great rates, always get my contract extended, always get asked back for new contracts (I always say no) and enjoy doing it far more than being a permie.

    And I do all of this in big, bad, expensive, competitive London -

    - but your comment has got me questioning everything!

    (Just popping off to apply for a permie job in the public sector - much more my speed!)

    Sorry, I'm a tad oversensitive today.. :-)

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      #32
      Originally posted by JRCT View Post
      Here's a list of most agents' priorities

      1. Agent
      2. Agent
      3. Agent
      4. Agency
      5. Client
      6. Contractor.

      That said, they can't keep 1 - 5 happy without a 6. If the only thing stopping you being their 6 is something they can fix, then tell them and let them sort it out.
      Good advice, thank you.

      Just curious - have any of you ever considered becoming agents rather than contractors? It seems to be a pretty easy life?

      I suppose you're keen to hold on to your souls.

      When I've turned down contracts offered by former clients, I always get asked if there's anyone I'd recommend. I suppose some contractors go agent side and make a fortune?

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        #33
        Originally posted by MrMarkyMark View Post
        Sounds like the voice of experience
        Other way round though :-)
        Rhyddid i lofnod psychocandy!!!!

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          #34
          Originally posted by CalamityJane View Post
          I've been lurking on these threads long enough to have heard the gist of this one many, many times before! (I didn't know the abbreviation though!)

          Yes, it's dished out to anyone who queries the advice given.

          Am I cut out for contracting? Well, I get great contracts at big brands at great rates, always get my contract extended, always get asked back for new contracts (I always say no) and enjoy doing it far more than being a permie.

          And I do all of this in big, bad, expensive, competitive London -

          - but your comment has got me questioning everything!

          (Just popping off to apply for a permie job in the public sector - much more my speed!)

          Sorry, I'm a tad oversensitive today.. :-)
          Wow, I only told you what the acronym stood for.
          The greatest trick the devil ever pulled was convincing the world that he didn't exist

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            #35
            Originally posted by MrMarkyMark View Post
            He has a few of these, hence the concern
            Not quite but I do know of one guy who ran up £1000s on the company phones on horse betting tips lines, stole from other employees, then got found out. Then punched a senior manager in a meeting to discuss all of this.

            (Apparently, this guy had a big gambling/drug problem too, lived with his gran, and nicked and sold her belongings too so it wasnt just work).

            In the end, he left sort of mutual consent to go to college or something. Ended up paying back a token of what he'd spent on the phone (Although he did pay back what he'd nicked from others).

            I know for a fact management were told if he asks for a reference, then give him one. Don't go overboard but make it ok but in no way shape or form put anything in there that is negative.
            Rhyddid i lofnod psychocandy!!!!

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              #36
              Originally posted by CalamityJane View Post

              I am not dishonest though. I wouldn't want to get this illegally. And - I shouldn't have to.

              Thanks though, it does explain to me how contractors get round this. I just...can't do it.
              I respect your desire to be 'honest'. It takes all sorts, I suppose.

              However for your benefit and those of other young people on this channel, being in business and being 'honest' is something you should be very careful about.

              Some people are deeply religious and it's a free country but most people would counsel their children to steer away from that kind of position.

              I have been connected with selling in the past (and as contractors we are salesmen as much as deliverers). Businesses small or huge do not succeed by thinking they are still at university doing their theses. You have to manipulate the truth to fit the circumstances you are in.

              A long time ago I was assigned to a very big bank where the consultancy I was working for had promised a reference site that didn't really exist. The bank kept asking for a visit to this fictitious client but the consultancy kept wiggling out of it. Then we got a lead to another very big bank and the first big bank agreed to be a reference site for the second big bank even thought they still hadn't got their reference visit!

              You see, everybody was happy so 'honesty' was not really helpful to anyone in this situation.
              Last edited by Cirrus; 3 November 2015, 13:52.
              "Don't part with your illusions; when they are gone you may still exist, but you have ceased to live" Mark Twain

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                #37
                Originally posted by LondonManc View Post
                Wow, I only told you what the acronym stood for.
                Sorry, I shot the messenger! Forgive me, I clearly can't read.

                It was Brillopad that queried whether I should be a contractor, not you.

                And it was a bit of an overreaction anyway as they followed up with some good points.

                But do you know how many times that comes up on every single thread!? Got a problem? Well, you shouldn't be a contractor then!

                I've seen it being wheeled out to everyone, so I was just waiting for my turn! A bit too eagerly, it seems.

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                  #38
                  Originally posted by Cirrus View Post
                  I respect your desire to be 'honest'. It takes all sorts, I suppose.

                  However for your benefit and those of other young people on this channel, being in business and being 'honest' is something you should be very careful about.

                  Some people are deeply religious and it's a free country but most people would counsel their children to steer away from that kind of position.

                  I have been connected with selling in the past (and as contractors we are salesmen as much as deliverers). Businesses small or huge do not succeed by thinking they are still at university doing their theses. You have to manipulate the truth to fit the circumstances you are in.

                  A long time ago I was assigned to a very big bank where the consultancy I was working for had promised a reference site that didn't really exist. The bank kept asking for a visit to this fictitious client but the consultancy kept wiggling out of it. Then we got a lead to another very big bank and the first big bank agreed to be a reference site for the second big bank even thought they still hadn't got their reference visit!

                  You see, everybody was happy so 'honesty' was not really helpful to anyone in this situation.
                  I appreciate your candour. Few would so...honestly...state the need for dishonesty.

                  But that story.....it could all have ended so badly, legally speaking.

                  I know, I know - high risk, high reward, but still...

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                    #39
                    Originally posted by psychocandy View Post
                    Other way round though :-)
                    Even if you shat on the MDs desk and nobbed his secretary at your last place they aren't going to give you a bad reference.
                    What were you the MD or the secretary
                    The Chunt of Chunts.

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                      #40
                      Originally posted by CalamityJane View Post
                      Sorry, I shot the messenger! Forgive me, I clearly can't read.

                      It was Brillopad that queried whether I should be a contractor, not you.

                      And it was a bit of an overreaction anyway as they followed up with some good points.

                      But do you know how many times that comes up on every single thread!? Got a problem? Well, you shouldn't be a contractor then!

                      I've seen it being wheeled out to everyone, so I was just waiting for my turn! A bit too eagerly, it seems.
                      Apology accepted.
                      The greatest trick the devil ever pulled was convincing the world that he didn't exist

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