Reply to: Rut Time !!!

[Stan.goodvibes]

At times like this I turn to meaningless cliches to get me through...

A rut is a grave with no ends

If that doesn't solve your problem you are beyond help

[Solent]

Single fat professional male (NSOH) recently separated with out income & own mortgage and tax avoidance vehicle. Enjoys the gin, good whine, country wa*ks and plebs and spending time with young daughter who must take presents at weekends.

Seeks loving understated lady boy for relationship to make my life a hole again with or without children who must enjoy slaving in the country and spending evenings with a battle of wine and simulating conservation.

Far more professional - DimPrawn you worded it so well. Appreciate that, the ads going in the local hearts club column. Brilliant advice

[DimPrawn]

Single fat professional male (NSOH) recently separated with out income & own mortgage and tax avoidance vehicle. Enjoys the gin, good whine, country wa*ks and plebs and spending time with young daughter who must take presents at weekends.

Seeks loving understated lady boy for relationship to make my life a hole again with or without children who must enjoy slaving in the country and spending evenings with a battle of wine and simulating conservation.



I haven't spell checked it.

[The Lone Gunman]

I was wondering why you would be simulating conversation?

[Solent]

Single fit professional male (GSOH) recently separated with good income & own house and company. Enjoys the gym, good wine, country walks and pubs and spending time with young daughter who must take precedence at weekends.

Seeks loving understanding lady for relationship to make my life whole again with or without children who must enjoy living in the country and spending evenings with a bottle of wine and simulating conversation.

You forgot to add the bit about love of fine Belgian Chocolates (only joking)

[tay]

Single fit professional male (GSOH) recently separated with good income & own house and company. Enjoys the gym, good wine, country walks and pubs and spending time with young daughter who must take precedence at weekends.

Seeks loving understanding lady for relationship to make my life whole again with or without children who must enjoy living in the country and spending evenings with a bottle of wine and simulating conversation.

Go on - go for it

[BrilloPad]

I recall he scored more chicks from the single parent group in the book, and was more cavalier about doing it. Way to go fella!

Though the best bit was it ended up portraying fathers in a positive light. Always a top result.....

[zara_backdog]

Single fit professional male (GSOH) recently separated with good income & own house and company. Enjoys the gym, good wine, country walks and pubs and spending time with young daughter who must take precedence at weekends.

Seeks loving understanding lady for relationship to make my life whole again with or without children who must enjoy living in the country and spending evenings with a bottle of wine and simulating conversation.

Go on - go for it

[ratewhore]

You are a fcuking arsehole, you know that?

Come on - it was funny!!!

[Platypus]

I have seen the film and read the book - I thought they were identical?

But I am old and my memory is poor - please illucidate me....

I recall he scored more chicks from the single parent group in the book, and was more cavalier about doing it. Way to go fella!

[scooterscot]

OK, as some of you know I'm 100% home based, no interaction. Lots of gym and thats my social outlet. Mainly have a drink of wine at home if I want a drink but thats about it. Feel myself, slipping deeper into a rut. Not blowing my own trumpet but good at what I do (developer ) and blo*dy good sense of humour (sounds like an Internet dating profile !!!!!)

Ex, is asking me to have more time with my little one, bonding etc which I love but ex goes out, and gets babysitters all the time etc. I live in a sleepy little town, not the buzzing metropolis, and devoid of (not meaning to offend) 'tottie'. The way the ex has worked it I will not have a weekend to myself per se, as the alternate weekends I dont see my daughter she wants me to have her on the Sunday morning through to Monday. Lovely, but rut time. How the hell am I going to move on.

Any suggestions ?

I wonder who the kids will respect more when they come of age.

A bloke I know whose parents were separated since childhood still has a lot of bitterness over his youth despite being so long ago.

[BrilloPad]

You are a f***ing ********, you know that?

I think he has stopped taking his medication!

He needs our sympathy and support - and a rocket to take him from his planet to planet earth!

I am sure when mini tay comes along he will be fine.....

[The Lone Gunman]

You are a fcuking arsehole, you know that?

Don't rise to it sweety, it only encourages him.
The rest of us appreciate you, just rely on that.

[cailin maith]

Cruise for chicks on contractor message boards. I know you have to be a complete loser to pick up chicks this way, but it just might work.
I suggest CM as a start, once you have her eating out of your hand you can move up to a proper female.

You are a fcuking arsehole, you know that?

[BrilloPad]

It worked even better for him in the book !

I have seen the film and read the book - I thought they were identical?

But I am old and my memory is poor - please illucidate me....