Originally posted by Diver
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What to say when she asks "How do I look" or "Do I look fat in this"
Answers that have served me well:
Q. How do I look?
A.1. Would you be really upset if I ripped that off you with my teeth and dragged you into bed?
A.2. If I thought you were dressing like this to attract another bloke, there'd be trouble.
A.3. Are you looking to chat up younger blokes at this do? Can't you change into something that doesn't make you look so tempting?
A.4. You just want people to say "what on earth is she doing with him!" But then again, the guys are going to be saying " Lucky sod" so fair is fair.
Q. Do I look fat in this?
See Above
Answers that have served me well:
Q. How do I look?
A.1. Would you be really upset if I ripped that off you with my teeth and dragged you into bed?
A.2. If I thought you were dressing like this to attract another bloke, there'd be trouble.
A.3. Are you looking to chat up younger blokes at this do? Can't you change into something that doesn't make you look so tempting?
A.4. You just want people to say "what on earth is she doing with him!" But then again, the guys are going to be saying " Lucky sod" so fair is fair.
Q. Do I look fat in this?
See Above
I've found the best answers are always non-sexual.
IMO, when women dress up, they don't really want to advertise that they are available. Giving the obvious male response of "you're so beautiful, I want to **** you" doesn't work if this is a good long term relationship.
I do agree with your answers if you've just met.
BUT if you've been together more than a year, I've found it's better to keep it simple and be sincere. (Unfortunately, the vast majority of IT guys have no clue whatsoever about this - and thats why so many of them have short term relationships - too much 1+1 = 2 and thinking about THEIR wants and reactions rather than their partner)
Q. How do I look?[/B]
- Feign slight surprise with "You look gorgous".
- "I love you babe"
- "I won't be able to leave you on your own"
- "Ding dong!"
- "I'll have to fight them off - Really like it"
Q. Do I look fat in this?
"Babe, you look great"
"No way"
NEVER show boredom in saying this and best not to vary it. Get her bored asking by saying the same response
In general, if you think Cinderella or the last scene in "Pretty woman", you're almost there. The lady wants others to see how beautiful she can be, with no need to worry that people will be uninterested in her.
Tap into that psyche, feed the confidence boosting and she's yours......
IMO, if you don't do this on at least an occasional basis, the good times will dry up. Never think that a women is bolshy and confident so doesn't need it - they all do. The last thing they want is to think their partner is only interested in them for nooky.
The excpetion to this is good time girl. In that case, one should never be fooled into thinking that she wants you for who you are.
i.e. Never confuse love with an "equitable transaction". You get a "looker" to do what you want and you pay so she just takes it. She won't be happy with it but "hey, the girl likes expensive things".
If thats you're relationship, just take what you want, don't get too inergrated. Always realise that if you get crap from her, ditch the bitch.
Unfortunately, a lot of women try to please their man at the begining by dressing up to attract. if you feed the "You better gets dressed up to impress me" line, it feeds the woman's insecurity and doesn't work in the long term.
OK, shoot me down. But YOU try this approach. The benefits don't accrue for about 3 months.
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