Originally posted by DS23
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Your question is the right one: what am I trying to do with the commute? Ultimately my aim is to maximise "quality time" at home (sorry but it's hard to say concisely otherwise) while not risking the office work. So, if I can make the commute shorter, I can gain some home time; but equally, if I can turn some commute time into working time, I can turn some working time into home time.
The secondary aim that has prompted this discussion is to improve the commute:
avoid unpleasantness,
reduce commute time especially fragmented useless time,
shift to less awkward times,
and finally, if I could use the time, that would make up for all the rest.
As usual I am short of both time and money, but at age 57 I'm leaning towards saving time. There's less of it left than I'd like.
I don't like the earliest flight on Monday morning because it really ruins the whole night's sleep for me and for my partner too (we both have a restless night), but it may have to be done: if that one little unpleasantness avoids the need for several others. (This is not a "get used to it", I am used to it but I want not to be!) My big idea there is to change the 1 home work day/week to Monday, so that the early day becomes Tuesday and the spoilt night's sleep is not Sunday's, so the weekend is better (that would matter to some people and not at all to others).
(Incidentally it's the stress of absolutely having to get up on the alarm that kills the sleep; so for example if I just paid full fare and could catch the next flight, I wouldn't lose the sleep. You can always exchange time for money).
I do actually have things to do in the evening too: I have solitary interests that I never get round to at home because they are so self-centred: good films, in cinema or DVD; Photoshop work on photos, reading books because I want to, not just to fill in time. So there is no time any time that is worthless to me, that I can just throw away on commuting. I guess it's a min-time/max-cost option I need, but it's more than just min-time; not every hour at home is the same as every other.
I would like to say that, although I may seem to have rejected most suggestions, this thread has brought out a lot of good contributions from people who are doing similar things. The guys have put in some good stuff. I think this is an area where we can learn from each other; and I may try to introduce more discussions like this.
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