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Previously on "How to avoid ruin due to broken marriage?"
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Originally posted by BrilloPad View Postbut I did all that!
shame she became physically ill followed by mentally ill. I accept people change as time goes by - but to go off the rails? Its just not cricket.
Unfortunately.
The "right girl" when you are 25 may not be the right when you are 45. Who can tell?
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Originally posted by Spacecadet View Postmarriage is supposed to be for life, thats why theres no real safe guards in place in the event of failure.
The only real way to protect yourself is to make sure its the right girl, work at the marriage and keep in mind that no ones perfect.
shame she became physically ill followed by mentally ill. I accept people change as time goes by - but to go off the rails? Its just not cricket.
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Originally posted by Spacecadet View Postmarriage is supposed to be for life, thats why theres no real safe guards in place in the event of failure.
The only real way to protect yourself is to make sure its the right girl, work at the marriage and keep in mind that no ones perfect.
So guys, if you want this -> Don't forget plenty of this ->
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Originally posted by contractor79 View PostSo how does a young bachelor boy in contracting protect himself from this potential situation? Is there a nifty IOU situation with parents that can be invoked should she walk out and demand all she can get. Or where can one put money aside for the future safe from a dodgy ex-wife getting her grubby hands on it- are personal pensions safe? should money go into some kind of family trust?
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Originally posted by Spacecadet View Postmarriage is supposed to be for life, thats why theres no real safe guards in place in the event of failure.
The only real way to protect yourself is to make sure its the right girl, work at the marriage and keep in mind that no ones perfect.
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marriage is supposed to be for life, thats why theres no real safe guards in place in the event of failure.
The only real way to protect yourself is to make sure its the right girl, work at the marriage and keep in mind that no ones perfect.
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Originally posted by BrilloPad View Postoppps - you did say 18 months - so I assume no children? In that case I reckon more like 30-40%. If over 7 years it would be 50%...
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Originally posted by DonkeyRhubarb View PostUnfortunately, I think she assumed that because the house was in her name then it still belonged to her.
Originally posted by DonkeyRhubarb View PostI don't know how much he would be entitled to in a settlement but since she has no savings or other assets to pay him off, she would probably be forced to sell the family home.
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Originally posted by Churchill View PostAre they still together? Do they love each other?
I don't know how much he would be entitled to in a settlement but since she has no savings or other assets to pay him off, she would probably be forced to sell the family home.
Not a good situation.
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Originally posted by DonkeyRhubarb View PostA female friend of ours inherited a country estate (c. £1.5M) from her parents. She befriended a pennyless bloke after her parents died, who moved in with her and helped her look after the place. After a couple of years she agreed to marry him. Even though the house is still in her name, her solicitor has advised her that it would probably have to be sold to pay him off if they ever got divorced.
She now appreciates the significance of the marriage vows for richer, for poorer, for better, for worse...
However, he seems quite happy!
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A female friend of ours inherited a country estate (c. £1.5M) from her parents. She befriended a pennyless bloke after her parents died, who moved in with her and helped her look after the place. After a couple of years she agreed to marry him. Even though the house is still in her name, her solicitor has advised her that it would probably have to be sold to pay him off if they ever got divorced.
She now appreciates the significance of the marriage vows for richer, for poorer, for better, for worse...
However, he seems quite happy!
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Originally posted by expat View PostDamn right, me neither! If you put money before love, even when you're in love, then you deserve neither.
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Originally posted by Churchill View PostLove is something you can't plan for.
You just take a leap and hope it works.
I'm divorced, will it stop me from wanting to get married again and trying for kids?
Nope, it won't.
Make the best of it boys and girls, it's only money and contrary to popular belief, you can't take it with you.
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