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[Old Greg]

99.9% of guys would feel the same after knowing a girl for 2 weeks.

99.9% of guys think that 99.9% of guys are like them. She just likes you, that's all and that's how people behave - we're not 18 anymore. If you like her, phone her back, say you got panicky and go along to her bbq, but say you can only stay for an hour or two. If you end up enjoying it, stay longer. If you don't like her that much, end it nicely.

[cailin maith]

well i just spoke with 'nice girl'.

she invited me to her friends party and to stay over at her parents for a bbq on sunday.

i have kinda freaked out and said to her that after only dating for 2 weeks, i feel a bit freaked out by meeting all her friends and family.

im sure ive given her the wrong impression now, but what on EARTH does she think shes gonna acheive by such a proposal.

99.9% of guys would feel the same after knowing a girl for 2 weeks.

Maybe she just thought it would be nice to have someone to bring with her.... rather than going on her own, esp if she has been single for a while....

Are you sure 99.9% of fella's would feel the same???

[cailin maith]

99.9% of guys think that 99.9% of guys are like them. She just likes you, that's all and that's how people behave - we're not 18 anymore. If you like her, phone her back, say you got panicky and go along to her bbq, but say you can only stay for an hour or two. If you end up enjoying it, stay longer. If you don't like her that much, end it nicely.

Good advice!

[el dudester]

Good advice!

I really like her. ALOT.

I just dont fancy her. I also really really dont want to lose her. I would miss having the contact i have with her everyday.

[Old Greg]

Good advice!

As always

[Diver]

I really like her. ALOT.

I just dont fancy her. I also really really dont want to lose her. I would miss having the contact i have with her everyday.

A good relationship is not necesarily built on an instant H on as soon as you look at a girl.
Ask yourself, Is she fun to be with, Is she interesting to talk to. do you miss her when she's not around.
Wake up and smell the coffee dude.
Most of these playboy type pinups would give you an intstant H on, and then bore you to death within a week trying to hold conversations with the airheads.

[cailin maith]

I really like her. ALOT.

I just dont fancy her. I also really really dont want to lose her. I would miss having the contact i have with her everyday.

You can't stay with someone you don't fancy. If you don't fancy her now, imagine how you will feel in a years time. If you split up then, she isn't going to have a clue that you didn't fancy her from day 1 and tThat would just be mean and un-necessary!

[smee.again]

I really like her. ALOT.

I just dont fancy her. I also really really dont want to lose her. I would miss having the contact i have with her everyday.

She sounds more like a good friend than someone you want to have relationship with....

[cailin maith]

As always

Why can't there be more fella's who think like you? got any brothers?

[Old Greg]

Why can't there be more fella's who think like you? got any brothers?

He's married too.

My single female friends in their 30s find it harder and harder as they get older, as the only men left are the useless ones (given that a much higher % of men are useless).