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    #11
    Originally posted by moorfield View Post
    Go for a nice boxed set of kids books something they will read and appreciate when they are a little older not tear to pieces whent they are two, eg. beatrix potter stories, kids encyclopedia etc.
    WHS

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      #12
      Originally posted by Board Game Geek View Post
      Yes.

      Don't get one.

      When the parents ask why, explain that committing a child to an organisation when the child does not have the freedom of choice to choose is hardly in the child's best interests.

      Let the child make an informed and consensual decision later in its life.
      Likewise, don't teach the kid English. Let it wait until it's old enough to decide which language it wants to speak. And don't give it any food, until it's old enough to decide whether it prefers pizza, Lamb vindaloo or stir-fried dog.

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        #13
        Originally posted by Board Game Geek View Post
        When the parents ask why, explain that committing a child to an organisation when the child does not have the freedom of choice to choose is hardly in the child's best interests.
        That's hardly the case these days for most people.

        IMO,
        Christening = keeping the door open for the child to decide later on

        Confirmation = committing a child to an organisation when the child does not have the freedom of choice to choose

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          #14
          TL Posted : Likewise, don't teach the kid English. Let it wait until it's old enough to decide which language it wants to speak. And don't give it any food, until it's old enough to decide whether it prefers pizza, Lamb vindaloo or stir-fried dog.
          You're missing the point completely.

          English, language and food are necessities for various reasons.

          Christening is not.
          Of all tyrannies, a tyranny sincerely exercised for the good of its victims may be the most oppressive. It would be better to live under robber barons than under omnipotent moral busybodies. The robber baron's cruelty may sometimes sleep, his cupidity may at some point be satiated; but those who torment us for our own good will torment us without end for they do so with the approval of their own conscience.

          C.S. Lewis

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            #15
            It is for Christians.

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              #16
              Perhaps so, but that doesn't necesarily mean it's right.

              Good night !
              Of all tyrannies, a tyranny sincerely exercised for the good of its victims may be the most oppressive. It would be better to live under robber barons than under omnipotent moral busybodies. The robber baron's cruelty may sometimes sleep, his cupidity may at some point be satiated; but those who torment us for our own good will torment us without end for they do so with the approval of their own conscience.

              C.S. Lewis

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                #17
                Originally posted by Board Game Geek View Post
                When the parents ask why, explain that committing a child to an organisation when the child does not have the freedom of choice to choose is hardly in the child's best interests.
                Not saying I'd do it (I don't, got friends who do), but that's not strictly true. Right or wrong some parents do it (And the whole church thing) to get their kids into religious schools - they tend to be much better academically.

                You could argue that is in the kids best interests.
                Hang on - there is actually a place called Cheddar?? - cailin maith

                Any forum is a collection of assorted weirdos, cranks and pervs - Board Game Geek

                That will be a simply fab time to catch up for a beer. - Tay

                Have you ever seen somebody lick the chutney spoon in an Indian Restaurant and put it back ? - Cyberghoul

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                  #18
                  I thought that maybe a St Christopher medal would make a nice gift - then everyone said it was too religious & I couldn't find one anyway (if it's too religious wtf are they doing getting him christened anyway?) so I ran out of ideas and just got a cuddly toy. Spent about 30 quid. Just a word of warning, don't buy a money box - my nephew got no less than 4 of them last week. Seems to be the in present.

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                    #19
                    Originally posted by TonyEnglish View Post
                    I've been asked to be the godfather to my niece. Do any of you lot have any good ideas for a christening present? (No horses heads etc) How much do people usually spend on a christening present?
                    You can buy wine with your own name on the label. Buy a case with the kids name on and lay it down till they are 18. If it turns out to be a vintage year then they have a valuable gift and if it doesnt they have a good starting point for their 18th birthday piss up.
                    I am not qualified to give the above advice!

                    The original point and click interface by
                    Smith and Wesson.

                    Step back, have a think and adjust my own own attitude from time to time

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                      #20
                      A good book?
                      The God Delusion by Richard Dawkins
                      "Condoms should come with a free pack of earplugs."

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