Divorcee's £600,000 plea of poverty

[Lucy]

Running off with another woman sends the same message to both the missus and the kids.. and it is not "I love you"

Especially if the mother tells the child/ren constantly - 'he left you as well!'

[BrilloPad]

"- guy got a shoeing bacause he found another woman." Doesnt exactly show a commitment to his kids does it?

Gosh the trolls are out in force today.

No doubt a woman is free to do whatever she wants? A man must forever do what his partner says - one wrong word and he loses his assets, income and kids?

[BrilloPad]

Especially if the mother tells the child/ren constantly - 'he left you as well!'

I have never understood that - basically saying that the kids are 50% bad. I do hope it does not happen much...

[BrilloPad]

Running off with another woman sends the same message to both the missus and the kids.. and it is not "I love you"

And if a woman runs off with the kids? Though technically it is illegal - I have yet to hear of the courts enforcing that aspect of the law.

[BrilloPad]

I never saw my father (or mother) either, I was adopted when I was 4...... even though I stayed in contacted with my biological fathers family I never had contact with him.

I am very sorry to hear that

My father died when I was 6.

There is a group called MAC? Mothers apart from their children? For women seperated from their kids it is really bad - horrors of not seeing kids plus everyone assuming you did something wrong big time.

[DodgyAgent]

Gosh the trolls are out in force today.

No doubt a woman is free to do whatever she wants? A man must forever do what his partner says - one wrong word and he loses his assets, income and kids?

That is not what I said. There are two sides to every story.

[BrilloPad]

That is not what I said. There are two sides to every story.

Are you refering to fault of breakdown? Or finances? Or access?

Either way - the family courts are evil and have much to answer for.

Should I end up with an incurable disease I intend to take Churchill's advice.

[DodgyAgent]

Are you refering to fault of breakdown? Or finances? Or access?

Either way - the family courts are evil and have much to answer for.

Should I end up with an incurable disease I intend to take Churchill's advice.

Though you seem a pretty decent sort of guy, I am sure that your ex has her own version of the story.

[Churchill]

Though you seem a pretty decent sort of guy, I am sure that your ex has her own version of the story.

They all have, all men are bastards!

[BrilloPad]

Though you seem a pretty decent sort of guy, I am sure that your ex has her own version of the story.

pretty decent? I should remind you I am a contractor!

My ex lied at every opportunity. I can show you the paperwork if you want.

Or would you like to talk to the kids? Then can tell you how they have to get her out of bed - how she feeds them junk food - how she is always tired, stressed and upset. She left the boy in the house once while she went shopping with the girl. not that I can prove it.

Nothing I can do anything with. Paula Yates was allowed to keep kids despite being a drug user - only when she left them in smartie tubes was anything done.

2 years ago I could have stopped her seeing the kids. Maybe I should have done it? For me I would stop her - but I could not be sure how kids would see it. Maybe they will curse me for eternity?