Divorce - not as final as you think

[Clippy]

Well I have seen my life, and that of my children, destroyed. So is it any suprise?

My father got cancer round about about my age. If I get it I am going to get myself a few weapons and cause carnage which will be talked about for years to come.

I would do it now - but cant face the rest of my life in prison.

I hope you are joking.

[cailin dana]

Hang on there is another side - I got shafted my my ex - the fecking bo***cks - when we split up he robbed me blind!

[alreadypacked]

Well I have seen my life, and that of my children, destroyed. So is it any suprise?

Andrew I know it’s hard I been there myself, cars removed in the middle of the night, locks changed and stuff thrown in skips. You get sucked into all the hate; you become a person you don’t want to be. But in the end it’s over, you have to walk away from the situation and decide how you want to be for the rest of your life. I know if there are kids involved it’s harder but it can be done. For me it took 4 years of therapy considering it was only a 3 year relationship a bit an overhead. But it was worth it, can’t even remember his name now.

[Chugnut]

Now please dont be silly.

Plan is to sell my estate next year and buy a wee retirement flat - the excess wonga shall be spent on Wine Women and Song - sorry girls as Ive outsourced my lovelife my love budget is fully stretched with various Femmes-de-joies in Brussels and Amsterdam.

Bless them.

So in the meantime my dear gold-digging gals - find some other sucker ...

Blimey, I didn't realise you were real! I thought you were some ASP code to autopost song lyrics!

[BrilloPad]

I hope you are joking.

Depends how many filth are listening.

[BrilloPad]

Andrew I know it’s hard I been there myself, cars removed in the middle of the night, locks changed and stuff thrown in skips. You get sucked into all the hate; you become a person you don’t want to be. But in the end it’s over, you have to walk away from the situation and decide how you want to be for the rest of your life. I know if there are kids involved it’s harder but it can be done. For me it took 4 years of therapy considering it was only a 3 year relationship a bit an overhead. But it was worth it, can’t even remember his name now.

pleased you are over it.

for me joining f4j was extremely theraputic. particularly the time I became the 4th person arrested on f4j active service. with Britains longest ladder, a few mates. And Batman/Robin.

[BrilloPad]

Maybe plan B should be to become a family lawyer and fleece you lot...

[SizeZero]

I'm not sure what outrages me more, this story, or the one about the Swedish sperm donor who was ordered to pay child support when the lesbian couple who used his sperm decided they couldn't actually afford the baby that came from it.
Posted by Richard on July 4, 2007 2:46 AM

We live in strange times

[tootie]

Hang on there is another side - I got shafted my my ex - the fecking bo***cks - when we split up he robbed me blind!

Exactly! there are more and more women who are the main bread winners now.

Anyway.. for £202,000 he could easily had the situation dealt with 'another' way..

[alreadypacked]

for me joining f4j was extremely theraputic.

Yes, it may have given you an outlet to vent you anger, but are you getting over it. You need to let go?